louee - mine used to wear my clothes when i was out. he also used to meet up with men for sex through personal ads in the newspaper but he definately wasnt gay or bi - yeah right.
he was violent towards me and attacked me and my mother in the middle of town completely unprovoked
he used to stay up all night looking at porn on the net and ran up a huge bill which we couldnt afford because he refuses to work
he was supposed to look after ds while i was at work but just handed him over to his parents so he could sleep all day
he spent a huge amount of money on drugs which he used to do in our flat while i was asleep. then he would leave them all over the floor so i had to hoover every morning before i could let ds out of his room
we were nearly evicted because he couldnt be bothered to pay the rent. i gave him the money but was apparently expecting too much for him to walk around the corner (it was less than 2 minutes away). i only found out when i cleaned out the car and found the letter threatening us. he said i could have done it in my lunch hour (i would have had to pay for a taxi back home to do it)
he tried to have me sectioned and was so convincing the doctor almost agreed to do it without meeting me. he arranged appointments with doctors and psychiatrists to come to our flat for times he knew i wouldnt be there, then told them i had gone out cos i didnt want to see them.
tried to thump my dad infront of kids
doesnt really count why we split, but worth mentioning that after we did he cost me and my parents £2500 in criminal damage (slashed tyres, glue in locks). threatened to burn down my elderly grandparents house while they were in bed and put a brick thru their window late at night.