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Any "fluffies" (children identifying as cats) at your child's school?

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5475878237NC · 04/05/2024 13:03

I had no idea this was a thing until this week. Parents are fully supportive. Is this happening across the UK? Apparently they're being provided with a litter tray in a private room. I thought being allowed to wear ears and a tail was going beyond reasonable but the litter tray seems completely unhygienic and a step too far in role playing how they feel about their identity.

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Ginisatonic · 04/05/2024 13:04

Oh god. Shoot me now.

Santasbigredbobblehat · 04/05/2024 13:04

Did you post this last week?
Not at any primary school I’ve worked in.

Santasbigredbobblehat · 04/05/2024 13:04

Think I’m going to report this.

5475878237NC · 04/05/2024 13:05

I've just googled it and it's a known hoax in America. However I've met a grandparent this week who said it's happening in their local primary in the West Midlands.

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5475878237NC · 04/05/2024 13:06

Santasbigredbobblehat · 04/05/2024 13:04

Think I’m going to report this.

That's fine. I'm a regular poster.

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5475878237NC · 04/05/2024 13:10

Ginisatonic · 04/05/2024 13:04

Oh god. Shoot me now.

There are ongoing cases within the NHS of staff wanting to identify as cats whilst on shift (and various internal procedures as it ties HR and Equality Diversity and Inclusion reps up in knots) but I had never heard of this within childcare before.

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Beatrixslobber · 04/05/2024 13:11

5475878237NC · 04/05/2024 13:10

There are ongoing cases within the NHS of staff wanting to identify as cats whilst on shift (and various internal procedures as it ties HR and Equality Diversity and Inclusion reps up in knots) but I had never heard of this within childcare before.

Source?

5475878237NC · 04/05/2024 13:12

mollyfolk · 04/05/2024 13:09

This is a myth that has made it’s way over from the US https://www.nbcnews.com/news/amp/rcna51439

Thank you. I don't really see how it can be a myth because this grandparent has seen the children walking into school as a cat etc. But I appreciate I can't provide any evidence!

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5475878237NC · 04/05/2024 13:13

I'd like to think it's not true though!

Ideally no one will come on and say their child goes to school with a cat.

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ViscountessMelbourne · 04/05/2024 13:14

5475878237NC · 04/05/2024 13:12

Thank you. I don't really see how it can be a myth because this grandparent has seen the children walking into school as a cat etc. But I appreciate I can't provide any evidence!

Being allowed to wear cat ears to school I can believe in specific circumstances. Using a litter tray has got to be bollocks.

Whinge · 04/05/2024 13:16

I don't really see how it can be a myth because this grandparent has seen the children walking into school as a cat etc

They've seen a children walk into school as a cat, and now they're jumping to fluffies and a children using a litter tray. 🙄

There are a million reasons why a primary aged child might be dressed as a cat, wanting to actually be a cat isn't one of them.

Tlolljs · 04/05/2024 13:16

Can’t be true. Wearing ears maybe. Weeing in litter tray absolutely not.

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 04/05/2024 13:17

Litter tray is bollox but yes there are children at my dd's school who dress up.

helpfulperson · 04/05/2024 13:18

Cats ears on headbands are a fashion fad in the same way Jo Jo bows were. Doesn't mean they identify as cats. I don't think they are as popular these days.

Readytoevolve · 04/05/2024 13:18

It’s certainly not a myth. It’s happening. It’s real.

To the PP said shoot me now, redirect that to these cats parents.

civilisation is fucked

BoohooWoohoo · 04/05/2024 13:18

The litter box bit is the hoax.

Children identifying as therian is not. Sadly I think that they’ve been brainwashed by social media.

Echobelly · 04/05/2024 13:19

Have you ever tried getting a child to even go in one of those 'hole in the floor' loos you get in some countries?

Not sure how anyone can believe there are kids out there who would want to shit and piss in litter trays. 😅

Whinge · 04/05/2024 13:19

Readytoevolve · 04/05/2024 13:18

It’s certainly not a myth. It’s happening. It’s real.

To the PP said shoot me now, redirect that to these cats parents.

civilisation is fucked

Do you have proof it's happening, or have you just seen some children wearing cat ears. 🙄

notagainnotnow · 04/05/2024 13:20

This is a known hoax / conspiracy theory as others have posted. Since then repeated and reposted with spurious 'claims'.

Origin as far as I know. There were claims that cat litter in classrooms were there to affirm children's identity as a cat. Fact? Yes there was a school that had cat litter in a bucket in classrooms in high school. Why? Because if they had to lockdown when there was a school shooting, kids would be able to go to the loo. Somehow the reality of children having to shelter from school shootings is just normalised.

Stop feeding the right wing nonsense. Anyone posting - my friends knows someone..., a grandparent says....the NHS are affirming this.... then please post actual fact or evidence not hearsay.

MissHavershamReturns · 04/05/2024 13:20

This is a hoax. Someone locally told me a child at a local school is in this bracket and that a letter had been sent to all parents. I know multiple parents at that school and no such letter was ever sent. Urban myth!

notagainnotnow · 04/05/2024 13:21

notagainnotnow · 04/05/2024 13:20

This is a known hoax / conspiracy theory as others have posted. Since then repeated and reposted with spurious 'claims'.

Origin as far as I know. There were claims that cat litter in classrooms were there to affirm children's identity as a cat. Fact? Yes there was a school that had cat litter in a bucket in classrooms in high school. Why? Because if they had to lockdown when there was a school shooting, kids would be able to go to the loo. Somehow the reality of children having to shelter from school shootings is just normalised.

Stop feeding the right wing nonsense. Anyone posting - my friends knows someone..., a grandparent says....the NHS are affirming this.... then please post actual fact or evidence not hearsay.

Should be edited to say a High school in North America.

AuntMarch · 04/05/2024 13:21

5475878237NC · 04/05/2024 13:12

Thank you. I don't really see how it can be a myth because this grandparent has seen the children walking into school as a cat etc. But I appreciate I can't provide any evidence!

Headbands with cat ears are pretty common. They might play cats at break time. That's it. They're playing. Same as superheroes or mums and dads. Kids have always (or at least in my 15 years working in the sector) pretending to be animals when playing.

SpeedwellBlue · 04/05/2024 13:23

No primary school will put out a litter tray for kids to poo in. Don't worry, it hasn't happened

notagainnotnow · 04/05/2024 13:23

@5475878237NC ah shit. My toddler dressed up as Bluey for world book day. She must be identifying as a dog now. Damn this woke nonsense 😂😂😂