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Parents Smoking outside the school gates…

51 replies

Ijustdontknowwhattodo1018 · 08/02/2024 14:55

Opinions please: parents smoking outside of the the school gates….

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Aaron95 · 08/02/2024 15:07

Not ideal but if they are outside I don't see what the problem is. Presumably you can walk a few steps away if you don't like the smell.

MyBigFatGreekSalad · 08/02/2024 15:07

What's your opinion on it?

Braksonsboss · 08/02/2024 15:16

It’s grim but there isn’t much that can be done about it.

IggOrEgg · 08/02/2024 15:17

Outside the school gates is, presumably, public space so same as smoking anywhere else. I couldn’t get worked up about this.

sprigatito · 08/02/2024 15:18

Meh. If it was inside the school gate you'd have a point.

Strokethefurrywall · 08/02/2024 15:18

No opinion whatsoever. Outside school gates let them crack on.

AnotherDayAnotherDoller · 08/02/2024 15:20

Doesn't really bother me, to be honest, there's only a couple that do it and they tend to stand back a bit.

Twilightstarbright · 08/02/2024 15:21

Grim, but smoking anywhere is grim tbh.

Superfrog3 · 08/02/2024 15:25

Annoys the stuffing out of me! Just the fact that so many children have to walk past them 🙄. Before kicking out time I don't mind but after it's just annoying! We also have a very narrow alley way beside the school and they always smoke walking down there which then just tunnels back straight into your face 🤢

I'm not a fan of smoking and obviously not much can be said its a public place but it is frustrating!

Peppapog263 · 08/02/2024 15:27

I think it’s grim. Have to walk past with my pram with a group puffing away is not nice.

CatamaranViper · 08/02/2024 15:30

I'm an ex smoker, DH is a smoker, most of my friends are smokers....not a single one of them would smoke outside the school gates or around children at all.
It's very disrespectful to all the other children who have to walk past them to get into the school. Similar to smoking outside a restaurant front door or the entrance to a hospital.

I'd be tempted to email the school and ask if they can request parents move away from the school gates to smoke. They can't force them to, but they certainly can ask.

thefallen · 08/02/2024 15:31

Share your opinion first, OP.

MamPadi · 08/02/2024 15:33

I think that's disgusting, I wonder if even legal? Like hospitals have no smoking zones even outside so maybe the same for schools? Talk to the school or council and see if they can do anything

Thingsthatgo · 08/02/2024 15:40

I think it's grim, and I inwardly judge them. I also make a point of watching them as they throw their butts on the floor in the hope that it'll shame them into picking it up (it never does!). It bothers me that the children see them do that, and think it's acceptable.

RadioBamboo · 08/02/2024 15:58

Ijustdontknowwhattodo1018 · 08/02/2024 14:55

Opinions please: parents smoking outside of the the school gates….

No problem with this (it could well be me!)

Peppapog263 · 08/02/2024 17:34

RadioBamboo · 08/02/2024 15:58

No problem with this (it could well be me!)

But why do you need to do it outside the school gate when hundreds of people and children have to walk past you to get out?

Thisismynewusernamedoyoulikeit · 08/02/2024 18:02

Don't like it.

Nothing I or the school can do about it.

Walk past quickly.

SleepingStandingUp · 08/02/2024 18:14

Grim and selfish. Omg I can't possibly cope to without taking my drug of choice for half an hour, so I'll make everyone else inhale it or walk in the road because getting my addict fix is more important!!

ZekeZeke · 08/02/2024 18:18

Feel the same as parents at the school gate with dogs.
I don't like it but its outdoors, nothing I can do.

StephanieSuperpowers · 08/02/2024 18:19

Horrible. They have no self respect or self control.

Growuppeople · 08/02/2024 18:21

No opinion up to them. Whats your problem?

Windydaysandwetnights · 08/02/2024 18:21

Ds's mate travels to school through the village on his df's shoulders. Whilst he is smoking...
Then he kisses that poor lad at the gate..

RaininSummer · 08/02/2024 18:23

Selfish, ignorant twats. Why can't they walk further away with their stench? There was a man at my bus stop puffing away last week. Triggered my cough but no, he didn't move, just gave me a filthy look when I walked away a bit.

CaptainMyCaptain · 08/02/2024 18:24

sprigatito · 08/02/2024 15:18

Meh. If it was inside the school gate you'd have a point.

They used to smoke in the playground with cigarettes held at child's eye level. Stopping this took years.

SnapCrackleandStop · 08/02/2024 18:26

I think we should be working on phasing out smoking completely but smokers tend to agree with me. I think a permanent ban on buying cigarettes for anyone born after say 2008 or 2010 would be a very good idea.
And the school should have a sign asking parents to refrain from smoking outside the gate.