11 yr old dd, what to expect

[Angrymum5]

My DD is turning 11 on the 12 of October and I have recently been reading the threads about 11 yr girls. I am very shocked about what some mums are letting their DD do aka. crop top, makeup, shaving, taking tube or bus to shopping mall with friends! I would understand for school, but for fun NO WAY!! She is also quite tall for her and has a bigger body build. She is very self conscious these days. I don’t know why! She has very. bad execema on her face sometimes and will go out until forced to! She has no fashion style and wants to re new her wardrobe but nothing at the store fits on her or looks good. She didn’t talk on the way home! She wears size 10 women’s! Her body build is:
147 cm
46 kg
32” waist
Should I be worried?

@Whatwouldscullydo

If shes an A then a bra like that will fit . Unless she's an AA in which case crop tops are still fine as that's a zero difference.

Is it the moulding you object to? As surprisingly they actually are better in alot of ways as they hide the natural unevenness and protect from rubbing against shirts.

we are going to stores tommorow and will try some if fitting rooms are open as I am not sure about the moulding, as she is not that developed. I am thinking as a sports bra, any suggestions?

If she is an A and doesn’t really have anything yet why don’t you just stick with the little crop tops? My DD Wears these from either next or Sainsbury’s and she is nearly 12. I would order some and try on at home as I don’t think changing rooms are open.

I think you need to chill out about it a little bit from what you are saying. Things will happen when you as a parent feel it’s suitable. Strangers on the internet don’t know where you live, how responsible your child is etc. So what we say might not suit your circumstances.

@Softpebbles

If she is an A and doesn’t really have anything yet why don’t you just stick with the little crop tops? My DD Wears these from either next or Sainsbury’s and she is nearly 12. I would order some and try on at home as I don’t think changing rooms are open.

I think you need to chill out about it a little bit from what you are saying. Things will happen when you as a parent feel it’s suitable. Strangers on the internet don’t know where you live, how responsible your child is etc. So what we say might not suit your circumstances.

thanks, I'm ordering some now!! from morrisons tho. She is my eldest so I dont know what to expect

Those measurements put her at a 30 b/c or a 32 a

So thats some development right there. Not sure where you got 34 from

@Whatwouldscullydo

Those measurements put her at a 30 b/c or a 32 a

So thats some development right there. Not sure where you got 34 from

Hmm me too... Yes there is some, but not a lot so I think sport bras will be our freinds for now....

Why are strangers on the internet discussing the size of your daughters breasts op? Doesn't that seem a bit inappropriate?