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Pubic hair - 9 year old dd

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Dancergirl · 29/04/2016 19:12

I THINK I might have spotted a few very fine pubic hairs on my 9 year old dd. She hasn't noticed herself and I'm not going to draw any attention to them obviously.

She's had a bit of discharge for a while so I assume this means that puberty is well and truly on its way? This is within normal age limits I presume? She just seems so young.

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LaCerbiatta · 29/04/2016 19:13

Dd is 10 and has quite a few now. It's horrible isn't it? :(

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Dancergirl · 29/04/2016 19:14

She's my youngest (of 3 girls) and older two didn't have any changes till much later.

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Dotty342kids · 10/05/2016 12:24

Mine had started at that age too, and in fact before she was even 11 was fully developed in that area! Periods started just before she was 11 too and pretty much had developed boobs too. It's amazing how much younger it all seems to start for them than it did for me or my peers.

McBassyPants · 17/05/2016 18:26

Sad but not fortunately not unnatural. Puberty is only precocious below 8 in girls. Hopefully they will just stay fine strands for a bit longer and she can enjoy being a child for couple more years

EatsShitAndLeaves · 17/05/2016 18:31

Same age as DSD - she started her periods just after her 10th birthday....

MashesToPashes · 17/05/2016 18:34

DD was about the same age and has only just started her periods at 13 1/2, same age as me, so there may be a way to go yet.

JarOfTulips · 17/05/2016 18:35

If it helps I was 9/10 when pubic hair and breast buds started, but periods didn't start until I was 12 and a half. The early puberty stage can last several years.

PortiaCastis · 17/05/2016 18:38

My dd got her period at 9.9 and had a bra when she was just 9 I was the same so don't know if it's in the genes. They're not babies for long

Roomba · 17/05/2016 18:40

I was 9 when I got pubic hair and breasts started growing. I didn't start my periods until I was almost 13 though, so it doesn't mean that your DD will start imminently.

Footle · 17/05/2016 18:52

I'm nearly 70 and my periods started as I turned 11. I don't get this idea that 'it's all starting so much earlier these days'. In fact my daughters started 2-3 years later than I did.

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Dancergirl · 17/05/2016 19:16

Thanks all. Will wait and see and hope things go slowly for a few years! My older two dds started their periods at 11 and a quarter and nearly 13 but at least they were out of primary school.

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Ffffffftttttttt · 17/05/2016 19:26

It's within normal range of development. Also just because their bodies are developing doesn't mean they're no longer children. It's not "sad", just normal in a world of well nourished children.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 17/05/2016 19:29

This doesn't necessarily mean puberty is underway. Breast development is the sign they really look for. And big growth spurt. Public hair can start in isolation.

fanjoforthemammaries7850 · 17/05/2016 19:29

My phone is a prude..I did write pubic

NotSpartacus · 17/05/2016 19:39

What fanjo said. It isn't uncommon for girls to have pubic hair at nine (and younger). Sometimes it's just one of those things. It doesn't mean puberty is on the way at all - breast buds are the start of that.

JennyOnAPlate · 17/05/2016 19:40

Puberty is considered normal from age 8 in this country (7 in America according to dds consultant !)

We were also told that periods usually arrive. 2 years after breasts first start to develop.

CaramelPrincess · 17/05/2016 19:46

I was ten when I hit puberty, I remember feeling so awkward as I was still at primary school and there were no sanitary bins for when I was on my period!

FructoseTart · 17/05/2016 19:50

I started a post on here last year about my DD. I noticed just after her 7th birthday that she had pubic hair.
I took her to the doctors for an assessment, they sent her for an X-ray to determine her bone age (apparently this determines puberty etc) and they confirmed she is going through it.
She's 8 and a half now, has quite a lot of hair but it doesn't bother her.

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Dancergirl · 07/08/2016 11:30

Coming back to my thread with a quick question - should dd cover up in front of dh now? She's still happy to run around with not much on, leaves the bathroom door open etc....

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FructoseTart · 07/08/2016 12:37

I'll answer this honestly.
If she's comfortable then leave her to it, unless anyone else in the house feels uncomfortable with it.
You don't want her to be embarrassed by her own body as its only natural, but at the same time you don't want her thinking that running around starkers in front of everyone is a good thing (you never know who is watching)

vdbfamily · 07/08/2016 12:47

my 9 yr old DD has had obviously pubic hair for quite a while. She was so upset about being the only one in her class with hairy armpits that my 13 year old daughter taught her to shave them which I was not at all sure about but have accepted it makes her feel more like everyone else!

Lottielou7 · 10/08/2016 22:06

I had pubic hair and breasts at this age but I didn't actually start my periods until I was 14.

McBassyPants · 20/08/2016 13:49

I don't think she needs to, no. I don't see why families should EVER have to worry about seeing each other naked. Obviously cover up in front of others, but immediate family? No I don't think so.

Why take away her innocence before she decides she's ready?

coconut0 · 20/08/2016 15:43

My 9 year old is skinny as a rake, but has the start of hairy armpits and little breast buds. I thought she'd be late to hit puberty because she has such a young body shape, but I was wrong.

JustDanceAddict · 21/08/2016 21:07

I noticed fine hair down below on my children a long time before any sign of proper curlies! I thought DD was going to start periods about a year before she actually did as she was quite developed but she didn't until aged 13 (about a year later than I did).

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