Scared

[helpmefeelok]

I have the first consultation for a termination tomorrow
What should I expect?
I've been told to have a full bladder (which isn't really difficult atm)
Used first day of last period to get my date of 7 weeks
What options will I be given
So scared

Done
Just woke up from surgery
Sipping on water
Feeling sad but relieved

I wish you a speedy recovery @helpmefeelok, don't hesitate to seek some post-abortion counselling if you feel you need it (something I wish I had done all those years ago). Wishing you all the best for your future ahead, take it easy x

Finally home
Had some toast n a brew
Now resting with hot water bottle in bed
Netflix to take mind elsewhere for a while
Hubby has been amazing n kids have done the remainder of the housework I didn't get to finish yesterday
Feel bad for lying to kids but it's best for them
The ladies n gents at the clinic were so lovely
Fell asleep within seconds n woke up to a nurse rubbing my arm
After care couldn't be faulted
First water to sip on then coffee n biscuits then wee n tummy check n dressed n given antibiotics for this evening n off home
Thank you all for yr replies
X

Sending you lots of x

I'm pleased to hear that you were looked after by the staff and now by your family. Take care of yourself and rest for as long as you need and are able.

How are you today OP?

Feeling floods of relief
Slept well last night
Woke up to no morning sickness n boobs r not achy
Feeling light n airy but with a slight pang of guilt
Had a restful morning and now slowly getting on with the day
Thanks for checking on me
X

Just reporting back for any silent invisible readers
Back to normal feeling

Good news. Glad you’re on the mend physically, you may still feel a bit emotionally wobbly. If you do, and feel that you do want to chat things through please give the Marie stopes number I linked to above a call for some post termination counselling.

Take it easy and recover gently as you start to get back to normal .

That’s great to hear OP. X

One week post termination
Feeling better and getting on with life as normal
Slightly religious so I have been saying a prayer for bean whilst doing my daily routines
Upwards and onwards
This will be my last post on here
Thank u all for being with me