crap please tell me it's not possible

[nappyaddict]

i can't have been pregnant for 14 weeks and only just started getting symptoms can i? for some strange reason i feel pregnant. i also had a period last month but it only lasted 2 or 3 days and i'd come off the pill so not sure if it counts iyswim. did a test and couldn't see anything at all then i swear in the last minute the faintest line ever appeared. surely it would have come up much sooner than that and stronger if i was 14 weeks?

either way we're all here to support you xxx

I thought if you got pregnant whilst taking the pill correctly it actually means that the pill doesn't really work for you and therefore NOT to rely on it as a method contraception in the future.

it was 4am ... does that count as first wee?

i think it was like a grey shadowy line.

if it was several hours since your last one!

did you read the test within the specified time? that is quite importnat.

a line that comes up quickly is more likely to be a BFP than one that appears 20 minutes later

I thought grey lines were evap lines..could be wrong though..

it said the reaction time was 5 mins and not to read after 10 mins. i was staring at it constantly for the 5 mins - nothing appeared til about 4 mins.

no it prob wasn't several hours cos i don't think i went to bed until 12:30-1ish.

Have you got any more tests?

hmmmm, i would be inclined to get another test. local pharmacy might offer free urine tests.. check with them

got the tests. shall i wait until first thing tomorrow?

it would be better as the HcG, if present would be strongest then, but if you are a bit further along, i am not so sure re levels... can you phone FPC for advice/

If it has been a while since you urinated I would use a test now.

Best of luck!

I would test as well, if you havent had sex for so long then it should show up anyway as you'd be quite far along

any news na?

test said not pregnant

ok, sorry you are sad. might be time to sit down and have a good think about things and what you want.

NA - you are still very young - having more children is something you can look forward to in the future - and enjoy life now as it is.

i know it's for the best but when you convince yourself that you are and you start looking forward to it it's a bit of a disappointment to find out you aren't. the pains returned last night and early this morning but have gone again now so i have decided to go to the doctors. really hope it's not ectopic. wish i hadn't cancelled that appointment now!

hi na, sorry to read this. good idea to get it checked out, but unlikely to be ectopic if the pg was negative x

apparently ectopic pregnancies have low levels of HCG and can mean you don't get a positive result :S

Best of luck at the GP

hope all goes well at gps. sorry u didnt get the result u wanted x

Hope you are ok NA. Sorry you were sad at the neg result. Take care xx

not at 14 weeks, i'd have thought. for an ectopic to hang on that long without fatally injuring you, it'd have to be somewhere with a fairly good blood supply and a bit of space. this is completely possible, of course, you can have ovarian or abdiminal eps, but your hcg levels would also probably be high enough to trigger a test. get to the docs all the same, though, nappies.

abdominal.

well that was a waste of time. doc seemed none the wiser than me. she took a urine sample and told me to go back tuesday for the results.