November 2025

[Esssa]

Anyone else for November 2025 yet? Technically I'm due Halloween but highly likely to be a first half of November baby assuming everything goes well. 3+6 today and I've known since Tuesday at 3+3! Roll on double figures and feeling a bit more secure in it all.

@Nikkix86 ive just rang recurrent misscarriage clinic and they have booked me in for a scan next friday(28th March) for 10:30.. just thought i would let you know. have you rang doctors yet so they can refer you? x

Oh that's good at least you don't have to wait too long. How many weeks will you be then? I think I'm going to phone them today and ask. My tests are a similar colour to yours x

Heres a better pic. I think I'll stop doing the strips they are alot lighter than any other test

@Nikkix86 yeah the strip tests were less then £4 off amazon but have a sensitivity of 10miu apparently.. seeing your tests have made me feel better i suppose but you have got a 2-3 on a digital haven't you? :/ going to test again tomorrow with a digi.. cant believe the amount of money its costing me at this rate 🙈 will be 5+3 next friday according to lmp but because i have a history of recurrent misscarriages i think thats why they get me in early to make sure things look in right place then have scans every 2 weeks to check progress.. nerve wracking though.. just really hoping i see a 2-3 tomorrow 🤞🏻

Keeping everything crossed 🤞🤞

Congrats on your bfp 🥳

For all the new people there is a WhatsApp group you can join it's in this thread somewhere the link to use ☺️

https://chat.whatsapp.com/Fnc6rPdtKvHESF9dcqN6Y8

Heres the link to the WhatsApp group ☺️

It also depends on what time you took the tests. Fingers crossed

Can anyone els see anything or am I going mad?

Ugh I've been to the loo today twice and wiped pale pink, second time a bit darker. Feeling v dizzy and lightheaded and had to have a nap there. Just phoned and left a message with epu. Supposed to be packing for holiday and have zero energy 😭

Ah @lynzmbI hope they get back to you quickly and you can be seen, hopefully just for reassurance xx

Aw no how is it now? Hopefully it stops. Have epu phoned you back yet? X

She said she'd probably get me in for bloods on Monday but we are away tomorrow morning @Writerscompanion
So just to wait and see, and call back if it gets any worse 🤷🏻‍♀️

Fingers crossed for you. Xx

Getting darker and heavier @Nikkix86. Not feeling very hopeful 😔 x

@lynzmb id give EPAU a call back and let them know.. hope your ok 💕

Oh no 😭 definately call them again tell them you need to be seen asap xx

@lynzmb oh I have everything crossed for you. If it’s getting heavier then definitely give them a call back. Hope everything is okay xx

Thank you ladies. Sorry for tmi but blood is red when I wipe now, I've put a pad on but nothing there so far. Sorry to ask, but for those who have been in this position, what are next steps? What are the epau likely to offer at this point on a Friday night, if anything?

I know it's not top priority and plans can be changed but we are leaving 8am tomorrow, driving 2 hours then getting a ferry. I'm wondering how bad it's going to be, and should we postpone? I know everyone is different but any experiences you're happy to share would be really helpful xx

I haven't updated here, just the WhatsApp thread but I'm unfortunately having a miscarriage. It started as I woke yesterday, tmi but was quite floody, heavy and I had to do a couple of clothes changes. It's much more manageable today but can still be a bit gushy depending on how I move. Obviously everyone is different so you may find things aren't like this for you @lynzmb I'm managing well with a bit of paracetamol as so far it's not been too painful. There was no fetus found on scan though and I believe this passing through the cervix is what usually causes me the most discomfort.

@lynzmb i would postpone your trip just incase as they might want to give you an urgent scan over the weekend rather than leave you any longer. i know my local epau are open on a saturday, not sure about yours? x

@Esssa so sorry to hear that 😔 💔thinking of you!! 💕

Oh no, I'm so sorry @Esssa🤍💔 sending a huge hug. Thank you for sharing and I'm sorry you're in this boat. It's awful xx

@Esssa I am so so sorry to hear this! 😭 Please take care of yourself and take one day at a time! 💜
@lynzmb Sorry to hear you are also going through the bleeding. I would stay home. Sometimes one may go urgently to A&E if the blood loss becomes excessive or you have other worrying symptoms come up. Take care of yourself ! 🫶🏻

So sorry @Esssa. Thinking of you both xx