Gender Disappointment

[OhMy55]

I am a 40 year old mother to a beautiful DD and I have just found out I am pregnant with my second DD. To say I am truly gutted would be an understatement.

Before I fell pregnant with DD1 I always wanted a son, I love the mother and son relationships as I am surrounded by them through my own family, partners family, male friendships and my friends children of all ages (those that says sons leave their mothers because they are male whereas daughters stick around make me question parenting skills, because I have never known a male to do this based on the fact he has a penis)

Do not get me wrong I love my DD and I know I will love DD2 just as much but there is something about boys and I feel I will be missing so much from not having a son.

I don’t know what I want from this post, I just feel lost knowing I will only have daughters :(

@SushiShopSearch

Pretty sure if she wrote sex disappointment people would of got the wrong end of the stick 🤣🤣🤣 also sex/gender meanings not really what the post is about

I wanted a second girl because I wanted my two to be close as sisters, to have the same toys, because I wanted to watch the sister relationship (that I didn't have). And I wanted to see them grow up as young adults.

But what if they'd hated each other? Being somebody's sister doesn't necessarily mean that you'll like them.

[quote boymummys]@SushiShopSearch

Pretty sure if she wrote sex disappointment people would of got the wrong end of the stick 🤣🤣🤣 also sex/gender meanings not really what the post is about [/quote]
That's hilarious, you're absolutely right!