‘DP’ just accused me of exaggerating my morning sickness

[ForeveronEtsy]

I am so upset. I am 7 weeks and have felt absolutely dreadful the past week. Still going to work and when I get home I am so drained I have to go to bed. I am struggling to function and we have a dd who is 3.
DP and has just gone to bed in a huff because I opened the door to let some air in. I have felt this resentful tone from him since I got home. I went upstairs to confront him ‘and he said it’s funny how you feel better all of a sudden’. I have just opened the door because I feel sick? Feeling slightly better after I have had something to eat. Anyway I don’t need to explain. He then went on to say I seem to get miraculously better after dd goes to bed which is not true at all. I am fuming but mostly upset. If they only knew how wretched this feeling is.

Do you have any support IRL you can talk to?

Please talk to someone in real life and start making preparations to leave. There’s a reason why midwives ask if you feel safe at the booking-in appointment and sadly it’s because for many women, abuse begins when they are pregnant. Don’t take him to the booking-in and answer honestly when she asks you the question.

He’s not a good person and you don’t have to live like this.

@Newwayofthinking

I'm sorry if this is triggering but

Would you consider a termination or not and leaving him.

He sounds awful and lazy

Was thinking similar tbh. There are options.

@WickedWestieWitch maybe I don’t know
@RhymesWithOrange no, not about this as I don’t want to tell anyone I’m pregnant in case I decide not to go through with it

Only you know whether this pregnancy is right for you or not but he doesn't sound like someone you could build a happy and secure life with

How are you doing @ForeveronEtsy ? Hope you're ok