10 weeks pregnant tomorrow and had brown discharge today

[sav1233]

Hi there I'm 10 weeks pregnant tomorrow and I've had brown discharge today! My stomach is quite sore also. I called early pregnant unit but they can't do anything! I had a miscarriage in March I'm so scared it's happening again.

I had a scan at what I thought was 8 weeks but turned out I was only measuring 6.5 weeks. I seen the babies heartbeat then and they said baby looks fine.

I'm so worried my scan isn't until the 3rd August. Should I book an early private scan just to clear my head? I feel like I'm on my period that's the only way I can describe the feeling.

@sav1233
Well still nothing but now yolk as developed
From my conception date I am just 4 weeks
As my periods have turned very irregular since my baby last year
I’m just praying that a baby will start to grow but I’m a mess atm

Sadly, it’s not good news for me either - after a really strong BFP last week, AF has now arrived so a chemical pregnancy for me. Feeling sad but nothing compared to holding onto the little bean for longer and losing it. Love to you all.

@jazmynj good luck my fingers are crossed for u 🤞🏼🤞🏼

@Chickoletta im so sorry! It's awful! All my bleeding has stopped so I'm thinking I'm in this for the long haul! How are u doing? ( sorry I know such a daft question )

@MNGal1987 how are u doing today? Xxx

@sav1233
I’m a bag of emotions to be honest. I had my NHS scan today and of course they confirmed miscarriage.
Yesterday I was bleeding quite heavily with a lot a painful cramps. Today the sonographer confirmed that I’ve almost had a complete miscarriage so no intervention needed. That I’m thankful for. I was given a pregnancy test and to use it in a couple of weeks.
Crazy thing that this time last week I was looking forward to my scan to see the heartbeat and literally less that 5 days later that dream is gone.
Mother Nature is mysterious 😔
@sav1233 I sent you a PM yesterday as you were on my mind. I’ve been avoiding the pregnancy forum.

@Chickoletta You have my sympathies - we don’t know each other but I’m holding your hand

@MNGal1987 how do I get pms???

Thank you both - a virtual hand-hold means a lot. I’m very disappointed but glad it’s happened now this time, not further down the road. Keeping fingers crossed for all of us - better times lie ahead.

@MNGal1987 @sav1233

I’m going crazy here it’s gone from brown to reddish brown with the odd tiny stringy clot
But it’s only when I wipe I don’t know what to do my partner doesn’t understand I really don’t want to go for This scan on Friday at early pregnancy unit
I have a boy one this month and a 2 year old so I can’t even relax
I’m trying to continue as normal but it’s hard as I really want this baby so much my heart is breaking and my head is messed up right now

@sav1233 @MNGal1987
U see when I wake up in the morning there is nothing there It comes after a couple of hours
Could this be implantion bleeding I really don’t no
I’m even scared of going toilet atm

Ohhh @sav1233 I’m so so sorry hun r u ok

@jazmynj
I’m so sorry that you are in the limbo stage of not knowing what’s going on. You have my sympathy .

To me it sounds like implantation bleeding. You don’t have cramps?
Try not compare your current situation with mine... I had cramping for around 4 days before my brown blood turned red - I knew the colour with cramps was never going to have a happy ending.

You previously said you had a scan and measured 4 weeks? Brown blood/discharge is old blood so it really could be implantation bleeding.
The only way you will put your mind at rest is to go to your scan on a Friday, I’ll be thinking of you.

Nothing worse though when you are told to relax, put your feet up which is impossible when you have two toddlers!

Myself, @sav1233 and @Chickoletta did not get the news we were hoping for but really try not to think worst case scenario - keep us updated 😊 X

@MNGal1987
They measured me at 4 weeks I am going off conception dates because my periods are mad so I was using Ovia app so I no when I conceived
I really don’t want to go on Friday
I am so sorry for ur news honestly I am
I feel so bad now asking questions but I literally have no one
My partner is t even understanding he told me yesterday to grow up and stop been depressed because I’m early
But I don’t know what’s going inside of me and I’m scared
And yet again I was up all night with these babies whilst he slept but it’s like I’m just carry on and act as if nothing is happening

@MNGal1987 they didn’t measure me at 4 weeks sorry typo error

@MNGal1987 see it’s still coming but only when I wipe I don’t get it

@jazmynj sorry to say but your partner sounds like a dick.
How dare he minimise how you should or shouldn’t feel. He needs a life lesson in how to be a supportive partner. You need to talk about how you feel and he needs to listen, hold your hand, give you cuddles, take his share of the bad nights and reassure you that everything is going to be okay; if it’s not okay he needs to understand why you’ll be upset.
Men who act like boys really grind my gears. He is 50% responsible for your pregnancy and whatever the outcome may be he needs to man up. Xx

@jazmynj wow he sounds awful! I'm sorry u are going through this and by the sound of it all alone too! It's awful!

My bleeding has all still stopped! I'm getting really annoyed as I just want to it happen so I can move on from it. I've been trying to stay active with my girls to hopefully bring it on faster but there's only so many places just now u can goto that have toilets available.

I'm truly sorry we are all going through this. It's absolutely awful.

Thinking of yous all & sending much love xxx

@sav1233 @MNGal1987
Well I was out and started bleeding a lot got home and I’m miscarrying I’m just gonna put the babies to bed and go down hospital
I feel so alone honestly and useless
This hurt is bad I don’t care if I wasn’t that far gone that was still gonna be my baby
This hurts a lot
But I’m defo miscarrying

@sav1233 @MNGal1987 as soon as I started getting period pains earlier I knew this was gonna happen
I feel so empty and hurt and don’t know what to do
I really want another baby so much

@jazmynj
Oh lovely I’m sorry to read that you think you’re miscarrying. I keep saying but wait for a scan to confirm.
I’m not going to sugarcoat it but if you’re cramping then prepare yourself that you might not get good news.

I genuinely hate that you feel alone. You shouldn’t feel that, you shouldn’t feel like you’re experiencing this alone. Where is your partner? Family? Friends?
I’m here to virtually hold your hand, to give you a hug, to cry on my shoulder. I feel your pain xx

@MNGal1987
I know it’s a miscarriage because of the clots I have lost and this little white bubble sac was in one
My family I ain’t really got none just my kids and my partner is at home looking after the kids as he can’t come with me cuz of covid

This hurts badly

@jazmynj I'm so sorry to hear this! It's so horrific!
How did u get on at hospital? My bleeding has stopped once again! I had a bleed lastnight woke up this morning and it had stopped! I still haven't passed the baby sac yet but today I feel quite sore like a bad period.

I'm also sorry u feel so alone. It's such a hard time for us all. Xxx

@sav1233 I am here now
They have done a sac everything gone just a few smallish clots left I have just had to have a tablet inserted to make me bleed and then I go home
I have a scan in 2 weeks to see everything has gone
But I t was an incomplete miscarriage

@jazmynj did u pass it on ur own or did u need to get help? I'm glad it's almost over for u. I hope u can manage to relax the next few days ❤️

My bleeding has stopped again I'm getting really annoyed I don't know what to do! I feel absolutely exhausted today me & the kids are just having a chilled day!

Xxx

im currently experiencing bown/pink discharge..im terrified as I lost one at 16week and 26 week...i have 3healthy boys and never bleed with those.but with my misscarage and still born I did experience bleeding..i did manage to get a scan in 6week but the bleeding is still their although only a wipe,im petrified..

@sav1233 I passed it my self but there is some product still in there so they insterted tablets which now I’m contracting the tissue out the pain is mad