Need some advice please

[Lovemybabiessomuch]

Hi I'd like some advice so I have 3 children one dd thats 12 years another dd thats 2 turning 3 in december and a ds thats 1 and four months and Tuesday just passed I've found out that I'm pregnant which is a shock as me and my partner use contraception, so this is where I need advice I told my partner I'm pregnant he said he doesn't want anymore and he wants me to get a abortion he said I can do want I want but If I keep it he's not sticking around I really don't know what to do or think I told him it's ok for him to say that as his body isn't going through all of this I'm already feeling sicky and tired please help

I'm good thanks. On a hen weekend and according to flo app my ov day is Tomorrow 🙈 but another app says Thursday so will need to be busy when I get back x

Oh sounds good have a great time and yes you will my lovely I have a good feeling about this month for you hun xx

How did you get on at your appointment @Lovemybabiessomuch ? Xx

@Michellebops good hun everything was normal had some bloody taken and did a wee sample to send off but every thing was good blood pressure was fine too I'm 9 weeks 5 days I'm due the bath of March 5 days after my sons 2nd birthday it all seems so real now and my partner has been fine not said anything for days then out the blue started again how are you? Xx

Hi @Lovemybabiessomuch

I've been thinking about you. Your husband is such a prick. I can't believe he'd say these things to you.

I'm glad your appointment went well. Look after yourself. Don't let him bully you.

March due date! Think of the money you'll save with the joint birthday parties

On a serious note - you've got little ones already, so keep everything you could use again for this one. Babies don't need a lot. It's when they get older they cost a bomb (I hear, mine's only 2½)

Glad you're keeping well!

I'm doing ok, about to enter my 2ww again so I have my fingers crossed xx

@Huggybear16 I've still got everything from my little guy so I lucky there and clothes from both of my two youngest and yes they do get more expensive when they get older my oldest is 12 and her things cost a fortune xx

@Michellebops ohh exciting hun I'll keep everything crossed for you xxx

Hi sorry to post here I’m struggling to get a response on my own post. I took a test last Thursday 01/08 which was positive but not dark. I continued taking tests for a few days and they stayed faint not getting any darker. (All using Morrison’s test which seem to have good reviews) I left it a couple days and used 2 cheap eBay tests Tuesday with my FMU which most came out negative so I accepted it was most likely a chemical pregnancy. I repeated a eBay test this morning Thursday 08/08, one week following first positive test which was again positive but still not dark. My period was due 03/08 so 5 days ago. Any advice or similar experiences? I am so confused and anxious, I don’t want to go to the doctors as I know there isn’t much they will do and at the stage I am just waiting to bleed 😩 I haven’t had any cramps etc.

@warrior9 get a clear blue honey the digital one my tests all showed up faint and I was six weeks gone they are still faint if I test now and I'm 9 weeks hope this helps

@lovemybabiessomuch thank you Iv heard mixed reviews about the clear blue digital sand didn’t want to cause further confusion by using one and getting inaccurate results x

@warrior9 I've always used them and they have always gave a accurate pregnancy result maybe been abit out on weeks wise but always accurate on pregnant or not xx

@Michellebops got my first scan date 5th of Sept so nervous and excited and worried all at the same time x

That's lovely @Lovemybabiessomuch

I'm so excited for you xx

@Michellebops aww thanks my lovely xx

@Michellebops how's things lovely? X

Hey! Another negative this month. Thinking about giving up completely this time for sure.

How are you keeping? How's things at home? Xx

@Michellebops oh don't give up yet hun and we'll everything has been great I thought he had got his head around it then today out of nowhere just starts being a utter arsehole again just saying horrible stuff again I really don't get him xx

That's just shite. Much love to you xx

@Michellebops thanks lovely it's very much needed he's been a absolute arse again today xx

@Michellebops look who I got to see yesterday

@Lovemybabiessomuch lovely 😘

Pressed send too quickly 🤦🏼‍♀️

Is all well? That's is such a clear picture.
Did you go yourself?

I've only just seen this thread but awfully, it's not the first.

Woman gets pregnant - a risk whenever you have sex (pretty sure people are taught this from quite an early age in school)

Then man decides to be a complete arsehole and make woman decide whether to keep baby or not (because hey, he doesn't have to carry them and sacrifice his body for them) with the added emotional blackmail of "If you keep it, I will leave."

I just wanted to give you some un-Mumsnetty hugs and say I'm so happy you kept the little one. How exciting you've seen them on screen! I'm so happy you have the strength to stand up to his emotional blackmail - very hard to do.

And congratulations!!

@Michellebops hey honey yes I did they did all my bloods for down syndromes and Stevensons syndrome everything came back with low chance I'm 15 weeks tomorrow going by the scan it's going so quickly hoe are you anyway babe? Xx