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not again?!!!!!!!!! :(((

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jomana · 08/05/2006 12:52

i had a baby in february.
after the lochia setelled i had a normal period.
but last month the period came 3 days earlier,it was just spots of brown mucus.
yet i counted 27 days for my next one.
i have sex almost every day and surprisingly i found that i was wrong in counting for my ovulation and i`m now terrified that i might be pregnant again.
any support or advice?

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blueteddy · 08/05/2006 13:19

I'm not suprised you are back in a size 10 if you have daily sex!!
Have a word with your gp about contraception.
I got pregnant while using persona for contraception, so wouldn't reccomend that method!

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jomana · 08/05/2006 13:19

anyone tried coil? is it painful?
after birth i don`t think i can cope with pain anymore!

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crazydazy · 08/05/2006 13:23

I tried coil and got pregnant with that, I wouldn't recommend it but some say its effective.

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jomana · 08/05/2006 13:26

im still very confused cause no method is 100 percent effective
crazy: did it hurt when they put the coil?

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throckenholt · 08/05/2006 13:32

the only method that is 100% effective is to abstain Sad

crazydazy · 08/05/2006 13:32

A little uncomfortable but no worse than having a smear I would say.

It was worse when they wanted to remove it when I was 8 weeks pregnant and told me I could miscarry Sad thankfully I didn't.

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jomana · 08/05/2006 13:44

i had smears beforeand they were fine.
im really confused now may be because i just need to be reasured that im not pregnant. i`ll do a test for now,avoid any more sex untill i figure what to use

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jomana · 08/05/2006 13:48

why every thing about women need to be so complicated and painful;pregnancy,birth,and now even our after baby life is so COMPLICATED
bills distroy body
coil painfull
condom uncomfortable
natural method unreliable
have i missed something?

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zippitippitoes · 08/05/2006 13:48

the persona was discredited a long time ago as an aid to contraception..it is now commonly used as an aid to conception

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HappyMumof2 · 08/05/2006 13:51

I really don't mean to be rude, but how anyone can have a 3 month old baby and be having sex every day and not think more carefully about pregnancy is beyond me. You need to take care of contraception and sort yourself out.
I can't stand it when people carry on as though they don't know what causes pregnancy.

If you didn't want to get pregnant, you should have sorted out contraception first.

LucyJones · 08/05/2006 13:51

why do you find condoms uncomfortable? there are lubricatns you can use to make it easier. I'm shocked you thought pills might make you infertile!

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jomana · 08/05/2006 13:54

i read that in somecases a woman who takes bills and tries to have babies again it takes her alot of time to get pregnant even if she had no problem the first time

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LucyJones · 08/05/2006 13:55

why do you keep calling 'pills' 'bills'?!!!

HappyMumof2 · 08/05/2006 13:56

the pill doesn't make you infertile. It can sometimes take a while for your cycle to get back to normal again - that's all, just like with pregnancy. It's not a permanent thing.....

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jomana · 08/05/2006 13:56

happymom
you`re absolutely right
i just was counting and thought it would work but periods became strange and irregular
NOT MY FAULT

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HappyMumof2 · 08/05/2006 13:56

lol LucyJones Grin

HappyMumof2 · 08/05/2006 13:57

not your fault??? Who's is it then?

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jomana · 08/05/2006 13:57

SORRY ABOUT PILLS!

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starlover · 08/05/2006 13:57

not your fault that you had unprotected sex every day.... ermmm

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jomana · 08/05/2006 13:59

ok
i was blind until i realised that i put my self in real trouble

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jomana · 08/05/2006 14:01

i think i was realy selfish thinking of injoing my self and not considering consequences

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jomana · 08/05/2006 14:03

thanks for all your comments now i know what to do
ill go to the gp tomorrow.and let you know what ive decided

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Tutter · 08/05/2006 14:03

jomana, are you for real?