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TooImmatureTurtleDoves · 28/08/2012 13:42

Over here!

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ScreamIfYouWantToGoFaster · 09/09/2012 00:57

Glad you liked the pic Dream! Don't apologise for not having a chance to look before, you have about a million more important things to think about! I hope your DD has a good sleep tonight and wakes up feeling much better for her birthday! Also, now you no longer have 3 under 2! Woohoo! Just 3 under 3, which sounds like walk in the park, ahem Thanks for all the sitting info!

Thanks for the advice Purple. There's no white head though, I'm pretty certain it's not a milk blister. It's exactly located under one of the sebaceous-type glands at the edge of the areola. It's wildly painful even if I just try doing up my sleep bra, so I have nooooooo intention of poking anything into it! It feels as though the blockage is somewhere far under the skin anyway, I think the painful swelling is just bruising, it doesn't feel like it's "full" of anything if that makes sense. It's not like a spot, I don't think it would "pop". It's also MASSIVE, literally about half the size of my nipple.

That's enough grossing everyone out! Although Gap are issuing individual codes to their "VIP members" (aka mugs who haven't unsubscribed from their mailing list!) so far I haven't been asked to show an actual code. When I bought stuff for DD, and the following day when I bought stuff for me, the checkout staff just asked upfront if I was a "VIP member" and if I'd received an offer email. When I said yes they just put through the deal, without asking to see any evidence at all. The offer ends on Sunday though, so not much time left!

PetWoman · 09/09/2012 04:34

Happy Birthday to Dream's DD! Hope you all have a wonderful day! :)

Biscuitsandtea · 09/09/2012 05:47

Happy birthday Dream's DD Smile

As Scream says, no longer 3 under 2 do I am brooking hard for a massive improvement in your workload from today. I envisage you'll spend an hour or two browsing the Sunday papers etc.... Grin Seriously though, hope you all enjoy the day. Are you doing anything specific for it?

Scream - ouch! That sounds nasty. I have literally no idea what it it but tbh if it is so painful that you can't put a bra on I would go to the OOH doctor today. If it does need ABs then better to start them ASAP and they may be able to give some topical relief. Really hope it improves soon though Confused. Also I'd go today because you want it better ASAP before your amazing holiday starts. When is that by the way.

Thank you for the sitting info Dream - that really useful (even though of course I should already know all this stuff! Sadly useful info like that has been replaced with a detailed knowledge of Fireman Sam and Octobauts characters and miscellaneous cBeebies theme tunes Confused). Still no real independent sitting from ds2 but I feel like he is on the way to it. He still is sort of holding himself up on the high chair with his arms or his chest leaning on the tray (hard to explain) when we're having meals which makes it all a bit hard work for him, but he is able to sit in the highchair well enough to eat iyswim. So I'm hoping that a by-product of the weaning / high chair time will be that it beings his sitting on. I think maybe that helped ds1 in the end.

Poor sausage was up at 5am this morning, same as yesterday and I'm sure it's these blasted teeth (or tooth?). It was his first night in his own room and I found him sideways across the cot right at one end, on his tummy with one arm down between the bars! I think that had woken him up and then he noticed his teeth were hurtling so I'm just feeding him to settle him off again. I think technically he is now using me as a dummy HmmConfused (of course DH suggested I feed him and went back to bed Hmm)

I've forgotten everything else and posting on my phone - will post this and read back.....

Biscuitsandtea · 09/09/2012 05:51

Right.

Purple hoping the sleeping improves pronto for you xx

Jaggy I'm sure you must be misremembering about DS1's teeth Wink - my mother assures me it simply can't happen Hmm

Kidding of course - I am looking forward to having my very own vampire baby Grin

Hope everyone else is well xxxxx

jaggythistle · 09/09/2012 07:08

if ever get 5 minutes on the pc i will try to upload a vampire baby pic. i deliberately tickled DS1 till he laughed so i could take it. Grin

seems quite common, I've heard of a few with fangs.

brooking for more sleeping and colds to pass quickly.

happy birthday weedream!

my pfb is nearly 3! Shock

jaggythistle · 09/09/2012 07:12

has anyone tried the 'only visible to my Mumsnet mates' option on the profile? i was wondering if it would be easier to add you guys usernames rather than mess with my profile all the time for photos.

i may investigate...if i get some computer time.

jaggythistle · 09/09/2012 07:14

ouch scream, sounds like a trip to the doc would definitely be worth it. :(

ScreamIfYouWantToGoFaster · 09/09/2012 07:49

Happy birthday Dream's DD!!!

Ooooo Jaggy, sorting out the Mumsnet mates thing sounds like a much better idea than faffing with my profile over and over! Let me know if you figure it out and I'll follow suit.

Thanks for the reccommendations to see a doc sooner, it's even more painful this morning so I've decided to take your advice and head over to the walk in clinic this morning.

It seems such a shame to disturb DD though! Another good night here, sleeping from 11 to 7 and then went straight back down after feeding. Shock This is just so unexpected I don't want to even breathe too loudly (Grin), let alone change her nappy and put her in the car! :(

jaggythistle · 09/09/2012 08:16

not Envy at all about all that sleeping scream Grin

had r in beside me from about 4 till 6.30 today. he was up at 2ish and had to change him after a random poo, then up at 4.

DS1 shouted through at 6.30 and i told him over the monitor that it wasn't morning yet. Blush i eventually went through at 7 when he shouted again, only for him to tell me he'd done a poo. felt so bad for leaving him then!

RubberBullets · 09/09/2012 08:38

Just testing out the mates option. Please can you look at my profile and let me know if you see a picture of my cat?

ScreamIfYouWantToGoFaster · 09/09/2012 08:40

It's good that your DS1 is calling you for poos though Jaggy! Even if it would be nice if he pooped a little later on weekends! Grin

Decided the walk in centre is unlikely to have any idea what advise me for what seems to be a relatively rare bfing problem. So I've decided to wait until a more hospitable hour and then ring my independent midwife for advice, and go to the GP tomorrow as planned. We go on hol next week Monday, but I've got my two-day residential work training course on Thurs & Fri, and I really want to be better by then!

DD is now up for the day, if that helps Jaggy? Grin

ScreamIfYouWantToGoFaster · 09/09/2012 08:42

No cat Rubber! Am I not a mate? Sniff sniff. Grin

RubberBullets · 09/09/2012 08:43

What about now Scream?

ScreamIfYouWantToGoFaster · 09/09/2012 08:47

I can see the cat! Very elegant! Name?

RubberBullets · 09/09/2012 08:51

Elizabeth. Well from my 2 minute fiddling extensive research it seems that the mates thing only affects pictures and not your main profile

TooImmatureTurtleDoves · 09/09/2012 08:54

I can't see the cat. Lots of photos of DD looking gorgeous, though, Rubber!

Right, going to make a cup of tea and come back and post properly.

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RubberBullets · 09/09/2012 08:58

I've just gone through and added everyone Too so it should be ok for you now. If I've missed anyone then let me know as I'm sure you are all fascinated by my cat

Biscuitsandtea · 09/09/2012 09:04

Scream please go today - worried about it being so painful. Call your IMW today but please think about going today. The OOH GP is after all a normal GP do should recognise all the things a normal GP does.

It isn't an abscess is it? I have no idea what the symptoms are / what it is really but I have heard that they are terribly painful which seems to tick your box!

Please go

I can see the cat too - adorable :)

Now you have to tell us how to do it Grin

RubberBullets · 09/09/2012 09:25

I've just realised that I meant to order Scream to go to OOH but posted too soon Blush

Right, lesson in mates only pictures

  1. Go to here and select Mumsnet Mates. Add in mates
  1. Go back to here and select Share photos.
  1. For each photo you want to restrict change the visibility to Visible to my Mumsnet mates and then press Save
TooImmatureTurtleDoves · 09/09/2012 09:30

Can you tell I'm a bit sleepy?

Happy Birthday, Dream's DD! Hope you have a lovely day together. Is there a party?

Scream, that spot thingy sounds very sore and a bit alarming. Hope your independent MW can help. I would be tempted to poke it with a needle, as Purple says, just to see what was in it. Blush In the meantime, hot compresses? V Envy of your sleep, by the way!

Jaggy, do upload the vampire pic, I want to see! No signs of teeth here yet but is it wrong that I'm hoping for vampire teeth in time for Halloween? Your night sounds rough. I refuse to have M in the bed because I lie rigid and can't relax if she's there. I doze - and then I wake up with a sore back from tension. I have discovered that if I get really tense for any reason my back starts to ache. Must do some core exercises and see if that helps.

Biscuits, M can only sit independently for 5 seconds max before she leans too far in one direction or another. However, she won't practice very often because as soon as I try to put her into a sitting position she tries to stand up. She's started to pull her knees up under herself when she's doing tummy time, though - it's really funny, her fat little bottom comes up (this has so far happened when she's been naked after her bath), but her arms aren't there yet, so she lies with her face in the mat getting frustrated. I read in the MN 6 month update email that babies like to see their mothers crawling around, so I have been putting her down on her tummy and crawling around in front of her like a loon.

Purple, the HV said the gag reflex had to have disappeared before BLW! Confused Anyway, I am still trying her on soft finger food, but have started shoveling in a bit of puree as well to try to fill her up so I can get some sleep in vain. Yesterday I had a skim through the Annabel Karmel Weaning book for baby food ideas and she really doesn't like BLW, does she? I still really like the idea, but nothing was going in so I got frustrated. All M has learned so far is that if she drops something, the dog will eat it, which is not a lesson I want her to learn! Last night M had banana and grape bits to gnaw at, followed by banana and grape puree. I tried carrot puree but I didn't boil the carrots for long enough and they made horrible gritty puree that tasted horrible, so unsurprisingly M wouldn't eat it. DH has made some apple and carrot purees and frozen them now.

Can't see any more posts and can't remember yesterday's chat! We met up with some friends who are due to have a baby in late Oct and they were blown away by M! [PSB fatuous grin] They hadn't seen her before - in fact, they're both doctors and the last time we saw the woman was when I went in to Triage with a tiny bit of bleeding and regular BH at about 32 weeks. She was the on-call doctor then, which was great. She was saying she'd been in hospital for 4 days with quite a lot of bleeding last week (at 32+4) - it brought it all back, how stressful pg is. Maybe I'm not ready for number 3 just yet after all.

We moved all the living room furniture around last night when M was in bed and she looked so surprised when she came through this morning! But it's good, the computer desk has a proper space now and the bookcases aren't so crammed into a corner. Still, moving bloody cheap Argos and Ikea bookcases is an exercise in frustration - the bloody things kept bending like rhomboids (do I mean rhomboids or parallelograms?) instead of moving, and the backs kept falling off.

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jaggythistle · 09/09/2012 09:38

is the cat in a drawer? I'm on my phone so pics are tiny and take a fortnight to load. can definitely see a cute baby. :) will have to go photo mad later if DS1 has a nap.

it is good that DS1 is telling us about poo, that one would have ended up in his nappy whether he was up or not, he insists on getting his breakfast before putting pants on!

we had a wee accident this morning, only a spot in his pyjama trousers because he refused to stop playing. when i saw he was struggling to hold it i had to carry him to the toilet crying, which was not ideal. he did do a big pee so i still gave him a sticker in an attempt to not make it a negative thing.

we then had another stand off while he wouldn't put clothes on and huffed because all his Lightning McQueen pants were now in the wash. sigh. could be an interesting day in this mood!

hope you are getting your butt to that doctor scream .

my friend had an abcess which was inside the boob and a hard lump, not sure if they can be outside really?

Wantsnomore · 09/09/2012 09:42

glad rubber is my mate realises this sounds a bit rude Blush
calpol and karvol are also my friends as D slept from 9-5.45,fed and then went back down until 8.
Sunday quiz- ( virtual choc of your choice for the winner!)

  1. how do you get photos onto your profile on an iPad? There doesn't seem to be a browse button.
  2. what's that sticky back stuff that you use to cover furniture called? cant be bothered to actually go to B&Q TIA :)
TooImmatureTurtleDoves · 09/09/2012 09:42

Yay, I can see the cat!

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RubberBullets · 09/09/2012 09:45

Yes she is in a drawer. I emptied out my knicker drawer to tidy it up and she jumped in there :)

Hopefully DS1 is just getting the grumpiness out of the way this morning and will be fine for the rest of the day. I have to say though, you must be a terrible Mummy to have let him run out of Lightning McQueen pants :o

jaggythistle · 09/09/2012 09:58

can you see fangs on my profile???