My story is quite similar to that told by @Bécassine. Charismatic / evangelical Baptist churches (home and uni). Came out to a few before I moved cities in my late 20s, and it was clear that this was Not A Good Thing.
In new city, tried to find a church to go to, and was told at one that the minister would want to 'explore those things with you' - which I know full well is code for 'tell me I"m a terrible sinner' and so I didn't go to church again for about a decade.
Now I go to CofE church where I'm welcome.
Don't underestimate the harm that churches did and still do - not every church, of course - but it does happen. The ones that say 'everyone's welcome' on their website, but actually mean 'as long as you play our way', or 'but not you', or will welcome you, but you can't get involved in any ministry, or do children's work, or (in some cases) take communion. It's sometimes subtle, sometimes no, but its there.
I think LLF was basically a 'kick the ball down the road' exercise to avoid having to make hard decisions. We'll make a show of listening to people and then do nothing. I'm glad the bishops have started speaking out and there does seem to be a groundswell of support, which is interesting. I'm not feeling overly hopeful though. I wonder if eventually there'll be alternative episcopal oversight, as there is for those against the ordination of women. We're 30 years past that and are living with it, so perhaps the same can be done for same sex couples.