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Stripped and dinning.

138 replies

Seymour5 · 18/07/2026 22:35

It's not a stripped shirt FGS, it's a striped shirt. It's not a dinning table either, it's a dining table.

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ImogenBrocklehurst · 23/07/2026 22:14

”glade” instead of glad seems to appearing frequently.

And “prolly” instead of probably, both spoken and written.

And inserting “of” in between the adjective and the noun eg “I’m not that bad of a person” or “not that good of a driver”.

Seymour5 · 24/07/2026 06:04

RaraRachael · 23/07/2026 18:47

Speaking of the 1% club, I was totally flummoxed by a question which asked, "Which 3 letter word sounds the same as its last letter?"

The answer was "Why". It works if you've an accent where you'd say "Wye" but I'd say "Why" so I'd have been out.

Me too. Scot here, I say why, not wye, and I pronounce ‘r’ so llama doesn’t rhyme with Starmer for me either. Saw and sore don’t sound alike for me either. It’s not annoying in everyday speech, we all have accents, but irritating when part of a quiz that is broadcast across the UK.

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notatinydancer · 24/07/2026 06:11

mohammedchungus · 23/07/2026 12:13

Me too.

And is likely why DH and I couldn’t get a 1% club question yesterday, apparently in other accents llama rhymes with Starmer 🤯 (there were photos of a deer and a llama and this was meant to be rhyming for Keir Starmer…)

How do you pronounce llama?

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/07/2026 06:49

My parents used to record Countdown and fast forward through all the chat. That's the only way I could cope with the 1% Club. Surely ell is the only valid answer to that question, avoiding all accent issues?

HappiestSleeping · 24/07/2026 06:57

Macaroni46 · 18/07/2026 23:35

Your and you’re. It’s really not that hard. Also too and to. There and their let alone they’re 🤦🏻‍♀️

Apostrophes - the difference between knowing your shit, or knowing you're shit.

Macaroni46 · 24/07/2026 07:41

HappiestSleeping · 24/07/2026 06:57

Apostrophes - the difference between knowing your shit, or knowing you're shit.

😂

Seymour5 · 24/07/2026 07:59

notatinydancer · 24/07/2026 06:11

How do you pronounce llama?

Lama. Rhymes with drama. Llama has no R sound in it.

StaRmeR. First syllable pronounced as it’s spelt, ‘star’, second pronounced ‘mer’ not ‘ma’.

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Travellingshoes · 24/07/2026 08:12

PleasantPedant · 22/07/2026 17:10

It's not even sh for s, it's often more of a shj for st, e.g. shjrickly, eshjery, shjreet.

I’ve noticed this. I recently started hearing gonnu instead of gonna as well and it’s annoying me. (I’m not a native speaker so ok with the American gonna but the one with the u sound is annoying).

Seymour5 · 24/07/2026 08:13

HappiestSleeping · 24/07/2026 06:57

Apostrophes - the difference between knowing your shit, or knowing you're shit.

Love this! 😄

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Aydel · 24/07/2026 09:03

I had a new one the other week from a colleague. “Will you be able to come to Jane and I’s wedding?”

BeanNaGealai · 24/07/2026 09:10

Aydel · 24/07/2026 09:03

I had a new one the other week from a colleague. “Will you be able to come to Jane and I’s wedding?”

This really, really annoys me. People seem to think that once there is an “and” in the sentence that you must use “I”.

Remove the other person from the sentence and you have the correct pronoun. So it’s “do you want to come with me” and “do you want to come with Mary and me” or “are you coming to my wedding”, “are you coming to Jane’s wedding” and “are you coming to Jane’s and my wedding”

catpupjoy · 24/07/2026 09:12

Ooh or ect instead of etc

MagpiePi · 24/07/2026 09:15

liveforsummer · 23/07/2026 09:21

Fumming is another one although I quite like it! In my mind fumming could be a different kind of rage to fuming. A lower level, less explosive but longer lasting grudge or resentment. 😆

Like thrumming?

MagpiePi · 24/07/2026 09:19

Saying ‘corter’ instead of ‘quarter’. Grr

HauntedBungalow · 24/07/2026 09:24

Has anyone seen my smugest?

Stripped and dinning.
RudePhthaloDalmadoodle · 24/07/2026 09:40

LovageSage · 23/07/2026 18:34

The original was exported at various times though, to America, Ireland etc.
Then the language evolved differently in different places. Unfortunately, some people in MN pour scorn on terms that are simply older forms of English that have survived mainly outside the UK.
Gotten is an example that springs to mind. Shakespeare used the term diaper (to mean a particular type of cloth rather than a nappy).

Agree with @BeanNaGealai that there is more than one form of standard English. Even within GB alone there is Scottish Standard English (SSE) to consider.

Some people on Mumsnet unfortunately pour scorn on anything outside the experience of Little Englanders. There's tediously regular miff about "Americanisms" like gotten, high school, Santa Claus, elevator, lawyer, etc. - all long standing uses in Scotland. And do not get anyone started on "can I get...?" - we're all apparently supposed to start saying "may I have...?" like we're Captain Peacock or something.

Accents vary, and rhoticity makes a huge difference. Of course it's Starmer not Stahma, and Mariana not Marryarrrner (you're not a pirate!) My sister's English husband STILL calls her Neener, which sounds like a fire engine, but we accept that that's how he speaks and it's natural to him. It would be good if that level of respect could be reciprocated.

VividDeer · 24/07/2026 09:46

Describing someone as past away seems more common than passed

JustPlainStanfreyPock · 24/07/2026 09:53

No fiftycuffs please...

JustPlainStanfreyPock · 24/07/2026 09:56

More pronunciation than pedantry, but on last night's Commonwealth Games coverage there were many references to Glaarsgow. Should be a short a in Glasgow!

moltopianissimo · 24/07/2026 10:39

Seymour5 · 24/07/2026 06:04

Me too. Scot here, I say why, not wye, and I pronounce ‘r’ so llama doesn’t rhyme with Starmer for me either. Saw and sore don’t sound alike for me either. It’s not annoying in everyday speech, we all have accents, but irritating when part of a quiz that is broadcast across the UK.

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I grew up in Scotland and I don't have a clue what other pronunciation of "why" you mean.

(It doesn't really help if you write, "I say why," because I just hear that in my own accent where it sounds identical to the letter 'y'!)

Could you spell it phonetically?

moltopianissimo · 24/07/2026 10:42

RudePhthaloDalmadoodle · 24/07/2026 09:40

Some people on Mumsnet unfortunately pour scorn on anything outside the experience of Little Englanders. There's tediously regular miff about "Americanisms" like gotten, high school, Santa Claus, elevator, lawyer, etc. - all long standing uses in Scotland. And do not get anyone started on "can I get...?" - we're all apparently supposed to start saying "may I have...?" like we're Captain Peacock or something.

Accents vary, and rhoticity makes a huge difference. Of course it's Starmer not Stahma, and Mariana not Marryarrrner (you're not a pirate!) My sister's English husband STILL calls her Neener, which sounds like a fire engine, but we accept that that's how he speaks and it's natural to him. It would be good if that level of respect could be reciprocated.

Of course it's Starmer not Stahma

What's the difference?

If you're trying to indicate your own accent you can't just write the word in question using its actual spelling!

HauntedBungalow · 24/07/2026 11:02

moltopianissimo · 24/07/2026 10:39

I grew up in Scotland and I don't have a clue what other pronunciation of "why" you mean.

(It doesn't really help if you write, "I say why," because I just hear that in my own accent where it sounds identical to the letter 'y'!)

Could you spell it phonetically?

Scots pronounce the h.

HauntedBungalow · 24/07/2026 11:14

moltopianissimo · 24/07/2026 10:42

Of course it's Starmer not Stahma

What's the difference?

If you're trying to indicate your own accent you can't just write the word in question using its actual spelling!

Pronouncing both 'r's is the difference. Many English don't pronounce either of them.

KrazyKatty · 24/07/2026 11:16

mohammedchungus · 23/07/2026 12:13

Me too.

And is likely why DH and I couldn’t get a 1% club question yesterday, apparently in other accents llama rhymes with Starmer 🤯 (there were photos of a deer and a llama and this was meant to be rhyming for Keir Starmer…)

I don’t understand this at all. How do you say llama and Starmer? They sound identical to me. 🤷🏻‍♀️