Have 14 month old ds and 4 year old dd. Facing the question of whether our family is complete and the first big potential disagreement with dh in years (not over day to day stuff obviously, plenty of those!). I'm feeling as if third good idea despite very tough first year with ds and dh hasn't ruled it out but is very scared on a number of levels - I'm 36, will baby be okay, exhaustion levels, the only people we know with three wouldn't necessarily recommend it, his dad one of three and doesn't think it's a good idea. And to be honest I think he thinks things are pretty balanced and I'm not so sure.
Just don't know enough folk with three that I can ask deep questions to about how it is with three, both at the baby stage and beyond and how they decided to go for it , or people who were one of three to know how it is to be one of three. It was a long and complicated process to get to number two and whilst I don't want that to be the factor that decides, we'll need to be sure what we want before we even start. Sorry if this all seems too personal to ask, but if it is then please ignore!
Bit long post too - sorry