What would you do...
My DSC (10) is horrible to my DC (5) every time they are with us. Sometimes they get on but 9/10 it's arguments or nastiness.
Examples
- DC not allowed to touch DSC things but this doesn't go both ways.
- DC is never allowed to express themselves when playing, it's DSC way or no way.
- if other kids in family around DSC will leave DC out and belittle.
- DSC always snatching things from DC or dictating what they can or cannot do.
The way they speak to my DP is terrible, back chat, everything is NO, they are huffy and will cry if told off.
My DP has been in tears with it several times as he doesn't know what else to do.
We discipline and speak to DSC but nothing improves.
Absolutely at my wits end to the point it's breaking myself and DP as I do not stand for my DC to be bullied in their own home or have to change their behaviour to suit DSC twice a week 🫠