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How to choose nurseries that feel identical!

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Emskies · 14/05/2025 11:42

We are choosing a nursery for our (will be) one year old in November. We have it down to 2 from 6 viewings and CANNOT figure out how to decide. Any advice based on the following would be much appreciated!

Both:

  • have space
  • equidistant from our house and tube stop
  • give a good vibe with nice and attentive staff
  • follow similar approaches and “curriculums”
  • seemed to have happy kids in our 2x viewings of each

nursery 1:

  • arguably 1-2 mins closer to us and tube stop
  • the kids seemed to LOVE the staff
  • good outdoor space
  • clean and newer looking
  • may have had a slightly happier vibe for the kid
  • good Rating (reasons pretty minimal to not get outstanding - didn’t give kids enough time to figure out a question and respond and didn’t encourage home language enough)
  • amazing reviews online
  • part of bigger conglomerate

nursery 2:

  • better outdoor space with climbing area and animals and a waterfall
  • outstanding rating
  • No reviews online even though been around ages
  • more local (one of only three of a brand in the area)
  • clean but a bit more dated
  • met with the coordinator and was impressed with how she runs things

these are the only things that separate the two - any advice on this appreciated! We’d usually go with our gut but both myself and husband equally like both and have zero gut feeling towards either!

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Emskies · 15/05/2025 11:48

Thanks again everyone!

So both offered us places and one has messaged this morning revoking the place as “someone else has taken it” - we were not told it was being offered to multiple people and would be given to the first responder! So that alone puts a sour taste in my mouth and means nursery 1 it is!!

Thanks for all your advice everyone it really helped steer our thinking ♥️

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ThreenagerCentral · 15/05/2025 17:47

Check how each nursery will allocate your 30 hours funding. Some have surcharges and some only allow you to use funded hours between 9-3 for example. If they cost the same, ask about staff retention. Good nurseries have happy staff who stay put. The final decider for me is the outdoor space, I want my kid outside as much as possible.

Emskies · 15/05/2025 20:49

ThreenagerCentral · 15/05/2025 17:47

Check how each nursery will allocate your 30 hours funding. Some have surcharges and some only allow you to use funded hours between 9-3 for example. If they cost the same, ask about staff retention. Good nurseries have happy staff who stay put. The final decider for me is the outdoor space, I want my kid outside as much as possible.

Thanks we don’t get the funding unfortunately!

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