Name change.
DD (16 years old in Year 12) is furious at me all of the time. She accuses me of criticizing her appearance and belittling her. She blames me for her developing an eating disorder (she binges and also avoids eating). She claims that I have given her "extreme body dysmorphia".
She won't speak to be, but screams at me to shut up.
She also treats DH very badly, but confides in him. He tells me nothing and says it's private. He did let it slip that she'd said that she feels suicidal and he found paracetamol in her room. I find it absolutely unacceptable that I wasn't told about this immediately.
She has weekly meetings with the school nurse, after which DD seems even more angry with me. Again, I'm not privy to anything that's said in the meetings. When I asks, she's screams at me that it's none of my business.
I'm shut out from everything.
I love DD with all my heart, but I just can't take bring screamed at and blamed for everything all of the time.
Don't know why I've posted. I suppose it's because I have no one to talk to about this.