12 year old girl sharing bed 8yr old boy ?

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Parents - advice please - is this ok?

Maybe it is ?!

12 yr old daughter been at her dads, had sleep over with friends
8 yr old boy, 14 yr old ( brother and sister )
My 12 yr old shared a bed with the boy

My daughter said it in conversation
Me and my ex very amicable and has had sleepovers with these friends before even though I don't know them

Texted ex who has blown up saying none of my business as it's his roof
Yes maybe....but would you feel uncomfortable?!

My daughters going through puberty and I just feel it's wrong

( must add my daughter didn't have any bad feeling about it if that makes any difference

Thanks for reading

In your first post, you said your daughter is going through puberty and so you felt it was wrong.

But if the kids between them agreed to swap over, I guess your DD didn’t feel uncomfortable?

If the kids were comfortable then no, I wouldn’t worry at all.

A child can sleep anywhere (as in floor/ couch etc) for a sleepover. The fact he got defensive he knows- can you talk to him adult to adult and say that can’t happen again (ie don’t blow up- only saying this as Id say it’s be hard not to!!)