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Is this okay?

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FebMama · 12/02/2023 11:45

I currently have DS1 who is 3 and DS2 who is two weeks old tomorrow.

With DS1, I used to respond immediately to every little whimper, winge or cry.

With DS2, there are times I can't respond as quickly as I am doing something with DS1. For example, today I put DS2 in the Moses basket. He was fed, clean nappy and was asleep. He woke up after a few minutes and let out a little cry but I was sorting out breakfast for DS1 so couldn't get to him immediately. Eventually, DS2 just went back off to sleep again.

Is it ok that I didn't respond? Everywhere you read says to respond immediately to newborn cries but there are times where I physically am not able to (the same happened when I was in the shower the other morning or when I was on the loo!).

Of course if the cries continued then I would have obviously seen to him.

What's the best thing to do here?

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Kitcaterpillar · 12/02/2023 14:32

I mean, what else are you going to do? Throw your toddler out the way to get to the baby? It's just not realistic. I'm sure you're doing a great job.

theoldcatsmells · 12/02/2023 14:50

FebMama · 12/02/2023 14:04

@theoldcatsmells yes I do have a sling! I have the ergobaby aura. It says it can be used from 8lbs+ so just waiting for DS2 to be weighed again on Friday then can possibly start using it the following week.

@SalviaOfficinalis I was the exact same with DS1 and he was a terrible sleeper for 11 months!! Here's hoping I have a better sleeper on my hands this time around.

That looks okay and if it takes the weight off great. I used this one up until age 2. www.babipur.co.uk/bb-sling-ring-sling.html?gclid=CjwKCAiAuaKfBhBtEiwAht6H7yWCUXv4y9pexoezwcmCZKYw7ke7o7irZDBfhE9EG98eGlWiWZav4RoCUnMQAvD_BwE

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