the urge to have number 3, did you have it (the urge) and ignore it?

[undergroundernie]

I have 2, ds is 4 dd 2.7, I miscarried in Nov at 6 weeks. For quite some time I have periodically thought about having number 3, practically it's not impossible but it would be a lot of hard work, the potential age difference keeps increasing, I like my growing independence. However I keep getting that urge now and then. Has anyone felt this but done nothing, and then found that the urge gradually goes away as your children grow?

had the urge,finally got DP to 'see the light' and am now ttc dc3 (this will our fourth child between us,i have a dss).

i can't wait!although im frightened i'll never lose the urge and have 50

I would love a third.....

like scorpio I do wonder if I'll just feel broody again after that? will it cure the broodiness??

Also had to have c/s with first two babies and although healed quickly and had no problems I do wonder if 3 is too many????

I didn't feel broody at all and was quite happy with ds1 and dd then found out was 4mths preg. and now have another ds!!! now 8mths old and the other night was thinking about a forth!! DH will never let me and after several sleepless nights the feeling has well and truly passed!