how you cope with an under 1yr old and find you are pregnant again

[shellybelly]

reason i'm asking is dh and I were caught in the moment last week and it was around my most fertile time (did my research!) anyway already have a 9mth old and I would be happy if i was pregnant but how hard is it if you already have a young baby, any words of wisdom please and be brutally honest if you need to

just to point out shellybelly has posted to say it is not happening at the moment.

tbh i really thought i was, knew my fertile times but i suppose i should take in to account my age etc feel like an old goat