Help - dd1 just caught us having sex!

[bonym]

She is 7 - we were in the middle of the "deed" when I looked up and saw her standing in the doorway. We didn't have any covers over us plus I had been wearing "bedroom"shoes . We obviously stopped straight away and I told her to come in to bed for a cuddle as she didn't look very happy. She is now downstairs with dh getting breakfast. Do we say anything to her by way of explanation or just ignore it. Help please!!

Well they can be a pair of jokers but one of the 2 has been circumsised and he seemed qute concerned that people would laugh or ask too many questions so Im inclined to believe them this time!

louise - I think you need to inform both of their parents and they then need to take this up further with the school immediately - tomorrow 9am. It is entirely inappropriate and NOT normal practise at all. I would be extemely concerned about the teacher's motives and would not allow this to go without speaking out.

Thanks. Think deep down I just needed someone else to agree with me. As they rnt my kids it was harder to make a decsion.

goog god, this is highly inappropriate tell the parents to go into the school and lodge a complaint, tomorrow.

louise - I think that, if this is true - which you feel the boys are being honest, then it is a very serious matter and will probably result in some form of investigation and disciplinary issue, This cannot be allowed. Please let their parents know. Who knpws what else this teacher is saying and doing.

RESPECT BonyM!

well done bonym. i cant even think about sex, well i think about so does dh, but then he feels tired so it just thinking about it lol.

i think about it , but dont actually get down to it t the mo , missdee, i guess dh thinks about it every 8 seconds, although he denies this.

You know, this was supposed to be a serious 'help, what do I do" thread, not a "congratulate me on having sex" thread !!! I guess I should have known better with you lot

I'd be more worried as to how you're going to explain it to the teachers tomrorow

might be time to explain the birds and bees to her lol. poor kid is going to emabressed in a few years if she remembers this.

That last comment was for BoneyM - hadnt read all of the thread though.

Louise - would definitely be worried and complain to the Head. Also remind your ds that what's in his pants is his and under no circumstances should he feel pressured into showing it/having it touched etc.

Please let us know how you get on.

ha ha, esp at the bedroom shoes, bonym, you might have known this would turn into a congratulating you for having sex thread, esp 8 weeks on. I LIKE that shoe site!

Hi all, This thread has really made me smile - Love the bedroom shoes ..

Doesn't anyone else have bedroom shoes then . Don't tell me I'm the only one

Erm I do

got loads bony, tho i call them something else

What do you call them Lou - tell!!

f**k me shoes!

Can I just ask am I the only person who doesn't have sex when the kids are awake??? Dh is always on at me but I just can't. What is wrong with me ???

Well, if I'd called them that at least I wouldn't have had everyone asking me what bedroom shoes were .

Are these the ones?

sexybedroomshoes

By the sounds of it bonym, we're all going to buy bedroom shoes now...........

Blossomhill - by the time the kids are both asleep, dh and I are usually too exhausted to do anything but collapse in front of the tv or go to sleep ourselves.