So best friend of ten plus years, getting married this year. Ive organised her hen down to a fine toothcomb (flights, hotel, entertainment, decorations), paid for her flight. Sadly my due date on my first pregnancy falls very shortly after her wedding and as her MOH ive said its probably best I step back.
She said she cant support my pregnancy & I cant talk about it infront of her partner as her partner has children with an ex and its too much for her to handle.
Her other friends have kids and they weren't told they were put on a child talk ban.
She said im not understanding her point of view and im self centered.
We met up to clear the air, said how it wasnt fair for her to blank my pregnancy wishes and unborn there was a loose apology and she said she could support me and was upset I didnt think she could???
She didnt ask for 4 months how me and the baby were and then by the time she did, I didnt want to answer.
Ive activly asked how the planning is going, bands, djs, dresses, flowers, bridal party etc etc.
After me organising this hen for her I had an assumption that she would ask if I wanted a baby shower and ive had nothing......
Am I being self centered for feeling hurt or is it just fair that I let this friendship go.