I had a dream and I had to choose between dp and my first love...

[charliecat]

I choose dp. Who would you choose?

my dh definitely, but what a fab dream!

DH without a doubt

Dh definitely although sometimes I fantasize about first love when we are doing YKW. Should I have admitted that?

lonelymum I do that too, not with 1st love but with one of the others

DH is my first love - awh! So no contest for me

I'm glad you admitted it too. I am not the only one to have said too much!

Maybe because my first love was crap in bed BUT gorgeous and the sweetest bloke ever I dont fantasise about him when we are doing YKW!

Well that's this thread squashed! Pity, I was hoping for more indiscretions.

LOL. Sorry - mine's a bit boring.

OK so dh is your first love. Nothing boring about that. Wasn't there anyone else you fancied before you met him though?

Well I used to go out with his best friend, and he went out with one of mine. But we were only 16 at the time, so nothing serious!

We need juicy gossip from some MNetters!!!

I choose dp, and this was my reasoning, I know all there is to know about dp and theres nothing that bad and of course the children are ours together and my first love after 10 years could have turned into the biggest plonker EVER and id prefer to be with dp who I know and love, not my first love who I did used to love, deeply madly and so much so I would have died for him...but I suppose I dont now.

I mean chose do I? choose looks wrong, correct me please!

Chose is the past tense so that is what you want.

Ta!

Yes but that is the attraction of first love - the fact that you don't know how he turned out. When I think about FL it is a lovely bitter sweet moment for me: he could be a complete prat (most likely!) or he could be an Adonis.... I will never know..... sigh!!!!

Not found him on Friends Reunited at all?

Have looked I must admit but he is Irish and had no luck. Found primary school boyfriend though and chatted to him a few years ago via email. He sounded quite nice, I am pleased to say.

No my god but ive looked!!!!!! I was so in love with him he used to GLOW like really...GLOW and one day, not long after getting together with dp, I was with my mum and I say my FL and I turned to my mum and said Hes lost his Halo...LMAO
But he never regained it, once the glow had gone it had gone forever. My dp worked with my FL btw HB

Hulababy, if you went out with dh's best friend does that mean you are still in contact with him? Is that embarrassing?

I saw my FL not say him..should preview

I found my first boyfriend on there (not serious at all though and definitely not FL material) but only as I was looking on my year group and he was there. Looks like he's achieved little or nothing TVBH. Although at the time I pretty much figured that out about him!

Lonelymum - no. We only see each other at reunion type things now, and maybe the odd e-mail on special occasions. We all kind of grew apart after uni. Although whole time at sixth form we were all great friends, with no problems at all. Only went out with him anyway, nothing serious in any way. The whole time I was with him I knew I prefer DH - but he was with my friend (again not serious either and not FL either for them).

So no indiscretions anywhere tonight? Well, must go now as the house has gone ominously quiet and I think dh has gone to bed. Night night everyone.

Night!

Maybe all the MNetters with exciting stories are out right now???