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I have a massive crush on the guy who sits next to me at work

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Tatat · 15/05/2007 13:49

Oooh isn't it delicious having a naughty schoolgirl crush on someone a bit younger!
Am married and would never ever act on this but it's so much fun having a harmless flirt and feeling those little butterflies. Even had a very rude dream about said chap last night and felt all excited about coming to work.
Reminds me of being 15 again, sooo ridiculous!

(Think I am ovulating hence the apparent desire to copulate with men other than my husband )

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wheelsonthebus · 15/05/2007 13:50

hope it's not my husband

beansprout · 15/05/2007 13:51

Oh yes, the ovulation hormone surge. I spend about a day a month feeling rampant and like a frump the rest of the time!

foxinsocks · 15/05/2007 13:51

lol

mumto3girls · 15/05/2007 13:52

Lets hope your DH ishaving just as much fun at workand whilst sleeping...

MrsDiorKeanuReeves · 15/05/2007 13:52

Tatat - just be very careful - I've been there.

GameGirly · 15/05/2007 13:52

Is that why I had a rude dream too (me ovulating, not you I mean). It started being a colleague. We were doing it in a jJacuzzi and then he turned into my DH, which was nice too! Sadly, DH had already gone to work so I wasn't able to finish it off...

foxinsocks · 15/05/2007 13:52

like men don't ever think about other women!

mumto3girls · 15/05/2007 13:53

Whats good for the goose etc

MrsDiorKeanuReeves · 15/05/2007 13:54

Just keep it as a fantasy and don't act on it. Men tend to see flirting as a green light!

foxinsocks · 15/05/2007 13:54

she's thinking about it

not fornicating on the desk

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Tatat · 15/05/2007 13:57

Beansprout that's exactly it- I feel like a dollop of dog pooh the rest of the month but for two days mid cyle I am The Queen of Shags and if unmarried would defy any man not to find me devillishly attractive. And then would of course with my astounding sexiness be rampant with every available chap going.

Mrs DKR what happened with your crush then?

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MrsDiorKeanuReeves · 15/05/2007 14:07

Fox - I never said she was, but she did say she was flirting with him.

Tatat - long story - it was on a thread, but I had it deleted. See my newer thread 'An update to 'to top off my crap year'' thread. That should give you a hint! Not a pretty story...

foxinsocks · 15/05/2007 14:08

I cross posted with you there mrsd (look at the time of the posts!)

hatwoman · 15/05/2007 14:11

blimey, I've long held the theory that I'm horny when fertile (dh agrees, in fact he usually spots it first) but I;ve never found another woman who'll admit to the same. maybe it's just mners.

MrsDiorKeanuReeves · 15/05/2007 14:13

Oh, sorry Fox! Bit sensitive there!

Boobsgonesouth · 15/05/2007 14:16

tatat...I have the same thoughts about our young "man about the house" makes me feel extremeley naughty (and guilty sometimes too !!) Shame that our kithcen extension is now finished as we're not likely to see him for a while !!!! Kepp fantastising...but keep it as exactly that

foxinsocks · 15/05/2007 14:17

yes, I get that ovulation high too. If I didn't, I'm not sure I'd ever feel up for it tbh

MrsDiorKeanuReeves · 15/05/2007 14:17

I'm always more 'ready' when I'm ovulating - but also just before and after my period, when there would be NO chance of conceiving. Doesn't seem to make sense to me, but my sister reports the same thing!

MrsDiorKeanuReeves · 15/05/2007 14:22

Oh look Fox - a simultaneous post! We must be tuned in!

MrsDiorKeanuReeves · 15/05/2007 14:38

That looked sarcastic - it wasn't meant to be BTW . I was amazed that we got in at exactly the same second! Little things etc...

foxinsocks · 15/05/2007 14:39

lol, I didn't think you were being sarcastic

Tatat · 15/05/2007 14:55

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MrsDiorKeanuReeves · 15/05/2007 17:16

Does he react when you flirt? Is it full-on sexual flirting? If yes, really do be careful...

foxinsocks · 16/05/2007 11:30

actually, I will now weigh back (or is it way back?) and agree with MrsDior.

What's going on that's making you feel invisible Tatat?

I don't think there's a problem with flirting per se but I think if you are feeling really crap about yourself and doing it to get your only kick out of life then perhaps you need to have a closer look at what's going on.

mylittlestar · 16/05/2007 11:34

tatat your dh should be making you feel desirable. every time you're low or need to feel better surely it would be better/nicer/safer to call, text or email your dh and have a little flirt with him...

just a thought.

nothing wrong with harmless flirting of course. and everyone likes to feel desirable. but I would hope you could get that from your dh too?