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QUICK MUMNETTERS!!! Slap some sense into me!!

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tammybear · 12/06/2004 18:52

Okay heres the deal. Dp is going to a concert on 20/6, Ive got an exam 22/6. He was going to look after dd for me whilst I have my exam. However, he is spending Sunday and Monday at his friends house, so he says he cant do it now. Ive got noone else to ask. Im really pissed off, so much that I could cry!!! I know Im being really stupid, and that I shouldnt be pissed off but I am. So could you girls help me see sense that Im just being stupid!

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hercules · 12/06/2004 19:44

I'm not trying to excuse him but 19 is very young and most 19 year olds think the world revolves around them.
I think it's a good idea about trying your college and explaining the situation.

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tammybear · 12/06/2004 19:46

thats a good idea hercules, ive got my teachers email address so i could ask him

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Clayhead · 12/06/2004 19:47

hercules, I do agree with you but it isn't just that he didn't agree to do it, he agreed and then changed his mind at very short notice and even a 19 year old should appreciate that isn't fair.

Hope your teacher can help tammybear.

hercules · 12/06/2004 19:48

I know that if it was one of my students i'd want to help.

hercules · 12/06/2004 19:49

It isnt fair! But 19 year olds do lots of selfish things.

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tammybear · 12/06/2004 19:50

Thanks guys. Hopefully things will work themselves out

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hercules · 12/06/2004 19:50

Not you tb though.

I'm sure Ilet people down at t his age in order to do som,ethimng more fun.

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tammybear · 12/06/2004 19:50

its quite ironic as im always complaining to dp that exp is always giving me short notice when he wants to see dd

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tammybear · 12/06/2004 19:51

quite alright hercules

with dd, ive had to become more responsible and mature, so i dont really have time to be selfish lol

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hercules · 12/06/2004 19:53

Bet you'd like to be selfish sometimes though. I'm nearly 30 and woukld loe to do a few selfish things.

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tammybear · 12/06/2004 19:53

lol yeah i would, i get the odd occasion when dd is at my mums house

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Kayleigh · 12/06/2004 19:55

tammybear, what time is your exam ?

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tammybear · 12/06/2004 19:57

9.30 in the morning, but I have to be there by 9, but it takes bout 15/20 minutes to get there as I'll have to get a taxi

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Kayleigh · 12/06/2004 20:01

If it was evening i was going to offer to babysit. But am working Tuesday in the day. I hope you can sort something out.

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tammybear · 12/06/2004 20:02

awww thanks for the offer kayleigh, i should hopefully work something out. ill just have to give everyone in my phone book a ring lol

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MeanBean · 12/06/2004 20:16

I'm sure the college would help out TB. If they can't help directly, they might know of a solution.

He might not be responsible for DD, but he's responsible for his relationship with you.

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tammybear · 12/06/2004 20:25

good point meanbean

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