Waiting For Zombie To Rejoin Her Phalanx

[mummylin2495]

This is where we will wait for our leader to rejoin the DBF team !

Yes and in this instance it would give me great pleasure Ikl ! Today he was caught shoplifting and it turned out the person who caught him is one of my gd,s friends father. She text my gd to tell her and my gd felt so humiliated.

The most important thing is that your DD is sure she wants shot of him.

As long as that is certain you can help her to deal with it.

Ambivalence and wavering are the enemies here.

He is doing it so that he can sell stuff to pay for his drink. He has bad health, no home after being kicked out of where he has been living, no job, alienated my dd and his two dd,s , even his sister wants nothing to do with him. Now he wants dd to sell the house . Sadly they are both on the mortgage, but dd dosent earn enough to ever get her own mortgage and the girls don't earn a lot. My dd has been paying on her own for the last eight years. We know exactly why he us doing this, it's for money. 18 months ago he had £35.000 from his mum when she died . He has since been to Thailand 5 times and spent every penny of that money. It has gone on the holidays, drink, drugs and prostitutes. He did not give my dd or gd,s anything. Knowing that they were both having driving lessons and knowing how hard my dd works to keep a roof over their heads. They have been living apart for roughly 8 yrs , maybe a bit longer than that. Now he has nothing left he has started harassing my dd and my two gd,s. But on Sunday when I was out fir dinner with my dh, he phoned me. Luckily the people who own the.cafe we were in are friends so I took the call in the back room. He said he had called my dd and she didn't want to talk to him so thought he would ask me to pass on a message. I lost the plot and told him he was a f--ing selfish ct . He turned up at my dd,s two weeks ago at 4am demanding she let him sleep there. There us much more to this story but it all gets muddled up and us long. Suffice it to say , he us an utter waste of space.

Oh she hasn't wanted him BBB since he attacked her and he was arrested. He was ordered to do community service, had a tag and there was an exclusion zone so that he couldn't go anywhere near the house. This was a long time ago now. He has not lived there since that, which as I said it's now been 8 or 9 years.

Oh god love, that's beyond awful. So sorry.

It sounds like it's getting to a point where you'll need to get another exclusion order, or something, slapped on him.

Your DD is incredibly lucky to have you and her dad and your brothers on her side. You all sound so tight and loyal and loving.

Between you all, you'll sort it and your DD and her girls will be fine.

Horrid for you to have to deal with ((((hugs)))) and strength sweetheart.

Lin that's so awful. I really feel for you & yours (I have some experience of deviousness & nature of alcoholics, but not to this extent).

You are & will be very strong and get through this. The low-life doesn't deserve to breathe the same air as you. Hopefully you can get another exclusion or restraining order that will bring you all some peace.

(((hugs)))

Sorry I lent dh my iPad for ten minutes , about two hours ago !
Yes it's a real worry. At the moment oldest gd,s boyfriend is staying there. He does boxing and is young and very fit. Just in case. He turned up last week one afternoon and even though the police told her to call she was frozen with fear as at the moment he is being very unpredictable. She didn't let him in or open the door.
He has epilepsy, hardly any liver function, something with his kidneys. And god knows what , how he is still alive is a mystery.

Lin - What a worry.

Adult children are almost more of a worry when things go wrong as you can't interfere (too much).

I am out for most of the day so:

PHALANX - fill this thread!

Like this!

Only 40 messages left (39 after this) - should be done & dusted by noon!

Sneaky extra gin ration for the last person to post here!

I've had to log off work. I have some kind of lurgy (on top of the wibbly wobblies) and I'm craving all kinds of crap food. Like potato waffles. I've not had potato waffles for about 8 YEARS!!!

I also want either Chinese food or celery soup. Not chicken soup. I must be one of the only people on earth who doesn't really like chicken soup unless it's Chinese chicken & sweetcorn soup.

I also want caramel chocolate like Twix, Munchies, Mars Bar etc

And about 20 hours sleep..........

And custard creams. A whole packet of custard creams dunked in strong tea

You forgot some ikl !
Very dull day here today, but it's my hairdressing day , which I love. This thread will hopefully end today. Seems to of been going for ages.

Morning.

I had a good night's sleep.

Plan for today is to shower, dress and go to Shrewsbury to hunt for a Micro SIM card. The phart smone also has a slot for a Micro SD card so I'll pick one of those up as well.

I'll see what the day holds after that.

Morning Z

Glad you had a good nights sleep. Hope you manage to get everything you want / need before Friday.

Going out soon for my pampering ! Zombie glad you had a good nights sleep. Hope you get your cards for the phone. You are braver than me, I hate having a new phone and trying to make out how it works !!

Enjoy your pamper Lin. I'm ensconced on the couch watching Toddlers & Tiaras munching leftover chocolate from the ones Iklboy took into school for his birthday.

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