i think everyone has contributed to the terrible character assasination of IR and I think that it was disgusting, grown ups like us who come on to Mumsnet for advice etc could get caught up in mudslinging and name calling..
More reminiscent of 9-11 year old girls in the playground actually.
At the end of this long day take a minute out to think about IR and the pain you must have caused her, agreed about the stretching the truth bit, but come off your high horses and realise that she never hurt anyone, with her kind words of encouragement for everyone who asked for any advice. Was nice to everyone and talked to evryone regardless of length of their time on MN.
She has just had a baby and recovering from the birth, which can be very stressful, as you all probably know.
What I find strangest evn those people who were friendly with her are acting wierd by disassociating with her, I dont think she was responsible for a serious crime was she, but you would imagine so..