Dear mums or mums to be,
If you are having doubts over having a child -
please consider the fact that in a few months time we will
have passed the 7 billion (!!!) marker.
Planet earth is being choked by our careless reproduction.
If you must have children, why not skip the horrible pregnancy thing,
and put that energy into adopting a child. At least in our developed, equal societies women can actually choose to not breed.
A while ago i'd become pregnant by accident for about a month and got an abortion straight away. ( i dont want my own children)
Pregnancy was in my humble opinion an absolute nightmare, i can not fathom how anyone would want to go through nine months of feeling like a puke bucket if there are millions of children up for adoption.
You could give those children a real chance instead of selfishly deciding for a baby, just so it can look like you.
Here's the article in the guardian about overpopulation.
www.guardian.co.uk/environment/2011/jul/18/population-7-billion-planet
Thanks for your attention.