Hi girls, propped up in bed, this is more comfy than sitting under the stairs, dont know why I havent thought of it before! Just had a bath, coloured my hair, shaved legs, immacd the moustache all ready for tomorrows meet up! Dh sailor mate of over 30 yrs ago is coming to visit, bringing his wife and daughter, I have never met them, they live in Colchester, fair old way to come. They are treating us to lunch out, how civilized! They have son who has been on tv, so will be interesting! Sat here feeling fat, <strong>am</strong> fat, long skinny arms and legs, but its all piled on around the middle, hate it. Need some inspiration girls. Its DH birthday next Sun 17th, and trios on the 27th!! Have very little money, so not spending much on presents and there is very little they want after Christmas. No one is free to come to supper for dh, and have no idea what to do for kids, indoor party is a no no, done that before and its hell. They would like to take friends to cinema, followed by lunch at the neighbouring restaurants, just cannot afford it, it would work out approx £15 a head, I personally would have liked 2 nights away, in a forest, something we could all enjoy! Becs doesnt even want to spend the day with the boys, I want to be with them all! Ideas welcome! Other news today which has upset us is we contacted hosp re DH appt to go in to have Gladys removed(ileostomy bag for those who think I am barking).We were told last Oct it would be Jan/early Feb, reassured by the consultant DH would be over the worst before we go to Florida, mid May. He would also repair a hernia that has developed at the same site. Today we have been told the waiting list is 6/7 months and he has no chance of getting it done before June!! Of course it would be so much nicer for him to go without the bag, swimming etc, but my worry is the hernia, he already gets alot of discomfort from it. The ins comps won`t cover him for the cancer, ileostomy or hernia as they say they are all connected! Not fair is it? If we cancel we lose our money, again because of the insurance! What next!!