I work part time and bring in approx 1/5th of our total income. At present my wages go directly into our joint account and dh adds a cheque from his business account into our account once a month. I take a set amount out each month and put it in my personal account to pay for stuff like my own clothes, mobile etc. It's okay but it feels a bit like an allowance and I'd like to be bit more financially independent.
How do you contribute to your household bills & mortage when you work part time and have all your own money paid into a personal account?