Ok so I have a dilemma... I have previously found out my partner was taking some money from me without my permission. I told him there won't be any more chances: we recently come back from holiday and i claimed some cash in vat returns on top of some unspent money in Euros: silly me I left all that cash laying about as i had other issues to take care of ... our 3 kids and bills . I know I put that money away in one place :.. week later I find it in another place with money missing... I haven't touched it... who did?! He said he hasn't :... am I going crazy to blame him?!