We all go through crap. I've been through worse than Yawn, some here will have been through worse than me.
It's not a competition and you aren't brave, you aren't inspirational, shit happens and you deal with it like everyone else. What choice do you have?
I know someone who was in a bad car accident, sorry, knew, they died. Instead of using it to pretend she's awesome when she's not she should be thankful for how lucky she is.
Scamming people doesn't make you a good person, it makes you a piece of crap, which Yawn is.
While I don't believe in Karma, I do believe that if you are good to people those people will be there for you when you fall in hard times.
When Yawn loses everything, which is a matter of when, not if, who will be there for her? Certainly none of her forever living 'friends'. Her upline will care about her as much as Yawn has cared for all the women she has financially crippled.