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Struggling today.

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youremindmeofthebabe · 18/05/2010 16:53

I have a suspect missed miscarriage, discovered at the 12 week scan, at which i was measuring 6 wk 4 days, visible yolk, but no fetal pole.That was last Wednesday. I have to go back a week on Wednesday to have a further scan, but was told in the meantime to expect to miscarry.

I am finding it very difficult as i know that my dates cannot be that wrong, so this is a pointless exercise really, and am really grieving for my baby. However there is still a tiny bit of me that can't give up that miniscule ray of hope, that maybe I am a medical anomoly, and maybe they were wrong, even though i KNOW this is impossible.

I just have the feeling that the second scan will really break me.

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youremindmeofthebabe · 27/05/2010 10:14

Hi loopy

I was ok until DS was in bed, and then i cried for ages, a little bit of fear for myself mixed in with the definite loss of my baby. However, I have woken up slightly more positive today.

How are you?

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