Can’t cope

[K0013]

Going through my second mc just now. Woke up in lots of pain. Why is life so cruel sometimes 😞 was hard enough getting over the first one.

Yes there is thank you 😊 I hope someday I can be sharing my happy story with other people to give them hope but as for today it’s all about the last of the Easter eggs and funny films 😊 xxx

Oh love, it's so hard, isn't it? for you. I have had more than one mmc. I had seen the hb and the baby should have been about 10 weeks, but had sadly died at 7 or 8. The hardest part was not really knowing why. One kind doctor explained it in a way that made sense; part of the genetic jigsaw may have been missing and it wasn't possible for things to carry on. For some reason this explanation made me feel a bit better and stop blaming myself. We now have 2 dc (9 & 12). There is always hope - keep believing that. I've had many friends in the same situation who have gone on to have babies. Do give yourself time to grieve and if it helps, talk to those who understand either on here or in rl. I was shocked at how many of my colleagues had been through the same thing, but their support really helped also. Wishing you all the very best for the future.

Thank you 😊 Beforemy first mc I really hadn’t realised how common it is, although now knowing that doesn’t really help. However I do certainly find comfort in knowing that so many people have gone on to have healthy and happy pregnancies. Thank you for posting xxx