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Don't know what to do about work

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NW10teacher · 06/02/2017 22:09

Sorry in advance, because I'm sure this is going to be a rambling post... I miscarried today at 8 wks with first pregnancy. It started on my way to work (I'm a teacher) and when I realised what was happening I called sick and went home. My OH is away for work but my friend, bless her, dropped everything to come over and help me.

I don't feel quite real about what's happened. I just can't face the idea of going into school tomorrow, but I'm also worried because my HoD called and had a massive go about ringing in sick too late. I get it, because it really does leave them in a difficult situation and we're short-handed anyway at the moment. So I really should go in, but I feel totally exhausted and the idea of going to work just makes me want to cry... I should add that I love teaching and my job and this isn't like me at all! So I just don't know what to do.

If anyone has any advice, I'd be so grateful.

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NassauBeach · 08/02/2017 00:14

Hi OP, glad you are off for the week now. I had a bad tummy when it happened too- stress and your body knowing there's something wrong here-!

So your HoD gave you planning... as in work to do while you're off?? Shock you know you don't have to do it while you're off. Only if you want to of course!

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