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Holy mother of CRAP..this was defo NOT part of my plans...what the jeff do i do??

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nosleepwithworry · 06/06/2012 10:52

I had my 7th mcs about 9 weeks ago (i think, i didnt write any dates down, have little memory of about 2 weeks during the time, due to the drugs i was pumped with)
In short, i dont know when it occurred.

Ive sought councelling because i have never talked about my mcs ever, to any one.(well, only to you lot Smile)
Additionally, i am coming up 42, and thught that that was IT the end, no more, even went and got the pill.

Patiently waiting for my period so that i could start taking the damned thing.
No af as yet.
Feeling much better in myself, councelling really really helping, im on a healthy eating mission (thanks to myfitnesspal) doing really well.

Accepting everything, although the grief has been overwhelming at times Sad.

So af still not here, so bought a cheepy test, thought that all pregnancy hrmones will now be gone...this far after mc....almost immediately a pink line came up.

We dtd only a couple of times..it normally took me up to 22 months to concieve so this has floored me...completely and totally. Do not know what the jeff i should do?????????
All calming words of wisdom very much appreciated....i know i know, theres no fool like an old fool.. Sad

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nosleepwithworry · 18/07/2012 20:00

twas a sweet little lovely nose and head to match.
a real baby shape, moving and bobbing around.

My boys scans were nearly 10 years ago, i had forgotton how THRILLING scans are because they have always always ALWAYS been distressing and dreaded to me because they always brought me bad news.

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StaceymReadyForNumber3 · 18/07/2012 20:06

I love the comment 'with a nose and everything'

This thread makes me very happy !!

ElephantsCanRemember · 18/07/2012 20:06

Aw, now I have tears streaming down my face. How wonderful for you Smile

minceorotherwise · 18/07/2012 20:23

Ooh a little wriggler
Fab

TigerFeet · 18/07/2012 20:37

Oh how lovely, good luck with the rest of the pregnancy :)

ThisWeekonFancyPuffin · 18/07/2012 20:39

This is the best thread Smile

iloveberries · 18/07/2012 20:41

So pleased for you

You give me hope and that is amazing x

tiddleypompom · 18/07/2012 20:48

Glad the plum can smell :) Well done you - wonderful happy life affirming news.

Enjoy those lovely memories and give that belly a pat from all your followers!

lotsofcheese · 18/07/2012 21:22

GrinGrinGrinGrinGrinGrinGrin
That's just brilliant! Have a wee think about a "making it to 12 weeks" celebration - wagon wheels all round!!! Xxx

NorksAreMessy · 18/07/2012 21:27

:o

have been lurking and can contain mself no longer
Congratulations Thanks

nosleepwithworry · 18/07/2012 21:29

Smile just Smile

you are all wonderfull and lovely and your well wishes, advice & kindness makes me warm in my tummy xxxxxxxxxx

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MakesCakesWhenStressed · 18/07/2012 21:30

Oooh - yay :D

5madthings · 18/07/2012 21:31

that warm feeling in your tummy is also the bean who is your very own internal central heating device!

you are lovely to share your journey with us, i shall be following the whole way through! :)

ButtonButton · 18/07/2012 22:14

I've been lurking too. Sitting here weeping quietly, so pleased for you.

kittykatsforever · 18/07/2012 22:21

Wonderful, So pleased for you, this little one is here for the duration!!!
You can start shopping now!!!!!
Just think your next scan you will be like a proper 2 nd trimesterer at like 13wks with a pomegranate or such like Grin
Now step away from those scanners!! Wink

Thelobsterswife · 18/07/2012 22:30

Another lurker with a big smile on my face because of your news!

LadyInPink · 18/07/2012 22:34

So, so happy for you nosleep i can hardly wipe the Grin off my face!!

MarmMummy · 18/07/2012 22:50

Yay!!! GrinGrinGrin

Been reading with a lump in my throat and so so pleased for you

FairhairedandFrustrated · 18/07/2012 23:07

Aweeee I have never sobbed and bawled as much in my life!

Congratulations and big big hugs xx

MildredIsMyAlterEgo · 18/07/2012 23:19

Hurrah for your baby's tiny little wee nose Grin

goingundertheradar · 19/07/2012 00:02

So pleased for you x

Mama1980 · 19/07/2012 07:33

Oh you've made me cry Smile hurray for gorgeous babe with nose and everything! I'm so happy for you x

TheOneWithTheHair · 19/07/2012 08:18

Hi nosleep I wanted to say congratulations too. :)

Killergerbil · 19/07/2012 09:19

Hurrah! With you every step xx

5madthings · 19/07/2012 09:31

one more sleep! so excited for you, i agree this thread is great, its full of hope and a brings a smile to my face as well as tears :)

so wagon wheels all round tomorrow then?!