I’m 54 and have been on HRT (first Elleste and after they had supply issues Novafem, both in tablet form) since right around my 50th birthday, when the interrupted sleep was driving me nuts. I’ve never been offered a gel or any other form.
I can’t say they have made me gain weight, but I will say that, having knuckled down 2 1/2 years ago to lose 2 stone-ish, that last 5 pounds just will not come off, and I have been the weight I’d really like to be in the past, so in theory I’m not looking at a weight I could never achieve anyway.
Whether that is the HRT or normal middle age causing that weight to stay on I don’t know. But I’ve been trying to balance it against the fact that I’m sleeping well, my weight and blood pressure are definitely in the healthy range, my clothes fit, my skin, hair and nails are all in good shape, and generally I think people would say I look pretty good for my age. I feel it too.
Mind you, I have to watch everything like a hawk or I’m in danger of backsliding, and there are other less pleasant side effects that may be attributable to the HRT (e.g., I have Raynauds syndrome and cannot bear the cold, my nose is frequently stuffed up and dripping, and I am in early stages of cataracts, all of which I have heard anecdotally can be connected to HRT). But I wouldn’t give up any of my sleep to make those go away.
Hope that helps.