Paddle - when they retreat I get annoyed and don't phone them for weeks!! That's really unhelpful to you but each time my Mum does it - and I have to explain to the kids why, actually we're not going to granny's after all, even though I told them we were - it pisses me off and I retreat myself. Although I know she's got slight mental health problems, in my mind I just can't excuse her, specially when her mad behaviour hurts my LOs.
I think the difference with your DH is:
he's acknowledged there's a problem and is trying his best to get better by seeing a therapist and taking medication
he's your DH - so its unlike my Mum, who will still be my Mum whether I pursue her or not
Have you tried texting just saying "Hi - R U OK? Worried about you..." ?
Shame his mum is not forthcoming or she's be a good ally.
Paddle I wore the turquiose top and black pull ons yesterday. Today its the beige cords and two tone blue top - DH loves the clothes today.Trousers keep falling down though
Puds/sfx - IMHO boys should have rubella too - otherwise they are a danger to PG women (can damage unborn child).
The single jabs are £80 each. Pads - I can't afford them either so have left huge gaps between jabs.
DS has now had Measles (x2), Rubella (x2) and Mumps (x1). DD has just had 1 measles and 1 rubella (their mumps is due this month) - she's 3.5. I pay for them on my credit card