YOUNG MUMS 18-25??????

[supermum1015]

HI IM A YOUNG MUM.WOULD BE NICE TO CHAT TO SOMEONE!!

i'm 22 with a 21 month old dd and a 3 month old ds. happily living with dp who's father to both and both babies were planned

(i'm normally pinktulips btw, in a festive mood so changed!)

hi sweetlove
can't believe how near you are to me. Probably have passed you in cotmandene at the shops if you ever go up there. I don't look like one of those glamerous yummy mummies though. feel a bit of a tramp some days as i've put on alot of weight and never get the chance to dress up

im still here btw all! just soooo busy! x

what have you been doing to keep busy. I'm so bloody bored

i go toddler group most days to get us out the house, its really good in there, really good for the kids.

sweetlove- have you heard of peckham, right next to there, not too close to bromley

lol, LotF has 2 babies to keep her busy!

are you still pregnant mwt?

alrite chocobloc, ive herd of ealing but have no idea where it is! ye its pretty mad in bromley these days, well busy, i probably passsed u coz im always bloody up there for sum reason or other, hope u and your youngen are alrite x

alrite mwt, i havent bin up cotmandene in a long while actually coz im too lazy to walk up there from where i live and that was before i was pregnant so i doubt i'll b there much now, but if you ever see a 6ft pregnant girl its probably me dont say tht about urself hun, well if we eva meet up we can get dressed up and go out like chocobloc was sayin we shud all meet up and go out in each others areas it'll b just wot i need after ive given birth lol well not strate after newayz im goin on and on so im off now but hope your fine and your youngen is too xx

can't believe how near you are to me. Probably have passed you in cotmandene at the shops if you ever go up there. I don't look like one of those glamerous yummy mummies though. feel a bit of a tramp some days as i've put on alot of weight and never get the chance to dress up

alrite prettymum ye ive herd of peckham its not that far is it whats it like in peckham neva bin up there x

yes yes SWEETLOVE THATS WHAT I LIKE TO HEAR GOING OUT! YIPEE! HAVE A CURRY! wHENS UR BUBS DUE? #mwt# hey just get dressed up you don't need a reason, we all go through the trampy stage and put on weight! Find a yoga class or sumt to go to, i know i will be the best if i went belly dancing, still look like im 3 months preg! iF I LOOK GOOD, I FEEL GOOD, U KNOW WHAT I MEAN! XX aND IVE GONE OUT LIKE A PRORPER TRAMP, AND I ALLWAYS BUMP IN2 SUM1 OR MY X'S M8S! no moreeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee! xx

hey pink tinsel, you sound busy, sounds like a alovely lil family, wish u all the best, itl b a mad xmas! x

im due at the end of feb!! alredy startin to brik it about labour i keep havin propa weirdo dreams about it lol x

2 babies keep me busy! at different but both very demanding stages.
do far, ds1 (16m) has sabotaged my housework efforts by doing the following:
pulling all the stuff off the radiators
emptying my white wash out of the machine,dragging them through the house, making them dirty.
thrown all the nappies all over the lounge, twice
emptied both his toyboxes but played with nothing
fed his breakfast and lunch to the dogs
hit his brother (2m) 5 times
emptied the cutlery drawer of potato masher, wooden spoon, whisk etc
pulled all the pots and pans out of the cupboard

he will do tons more yet before dh gets home to a bomb site.
some days there is no stopping him. if i'm seeing to the baby i have to let him get on with it provided he's not in danger, it's so frustrating!!
but i love 'em to death!

didnt realise it was you pinktulips!! lol
i have this crap name coz the other all thought i was a fraudster coz i changed my name. will keep it like this for a bit till it sinks in who i am- 1baby1bump/2babies0bumps!!
both mine were planned too with 14m in between them, but i try to keep it a bit quiet otherwise i get looked at as though i've got a screw loose!!
most people's responses to the second pregnancy news was 'accident was it?' and i felt like saying 'no, but you'll have an 'accident' in a sec!' lol

have to admit i didn't realise it was you either til you added the 'is1baby1bump'

pmsl at 'no but you'll have an accident in a sec'. feel the same way when people jump to conclusions, although for me it's my first everyone presumes was an accident

mind you, sometimes i think i have got a screw loose.... like now when ds2 wont stop crying and ds1 is getting all the cuddlies out.... again.

i think your ds1 and my dd would have a lot in common, shes a bit of a destroyer as well. takes all the toys out and plays with none, pulls out everything not screwed down/locked, tears/breaks things for no apparent reason, throws herself off the couch onto the tile floor. and like you if i'm stuck feeding ds there's f-all i can do.

and yet it seemed wise to have a second?! thank the gods ds is a calm little man or i'd have been committed by now!

eh...me and you are scarily similar!
ds2 is a laid back little malibu man too!!

PINK TINSEL AND LADY! I only have one, will be seeking new sperm in the future, ex's wasnt fab! My ds throws, rips, slaps, breaks evreything, but wen ur tired, or just want to keep em quiet u let them get out the pans, clear it up later, thats the long thing!

Hey SWEET is it ur first, pls take plenty of gas and air, epidural everything! i didnt ave ne drugs until, an hour b4 he was born, fucking lucky i did cos that head wuda had me still in the hospital screaming till 2009! i was shit scared of the birth, but once irts hapn u just go with it, nad the other 2 gals r on number2! U DO 4GET THE PAIN! dYA NEED ANY TIPS, COS IM SURE U AVE TONS OF BOOKS, WEB PAFGES ETC! XX

just be a bloody 'ard nut like me and have no pain relief! lol
both times!!
i am f'ing mental may i add....!

we really do have alot in common LotF

i was far too stubborn to take pain relief and it was fine. the pain was the least of my worries with dd's birth and with ds i'd done it before so i knew i could cope.

and honestly, you could care less about the pain afterwards and being able to walk and move around helps you feel so much better right afterwards

gas and air was enough for me, but with dc2 it made me start hallucinating and i felt like i was going crazy!! but the labour did seem to speed up aswell!!!

where ru lot, were supsd 2 be young and bursting with nrg!

just soooo busy all the time! lol
wait for the thread to reappear then post on it!

ahah! thought someone would say that, i was waiting 2 Yeah i know the feeling! supsd to be doing an assignment in a lil while, fun! hows life been?

PRETTY MUM IF UR ABOUT NE TIME SOON! Just read a comment u made in multicultural thread, really sad about your family not speaking to u! my freind is in exactly the same dilemma, shes sikh and hes jamacian, but they have had to abort! COS OF THE STUPID FAMILY!