YOUNG MUMS 18-25??????

[supermum1015]

HI IM A YOUNG MUM.WOULD BE NICE TO CHAT TO SOMEONE!!

I could only have DH in the room with me!!! My mum was a midwife and she was ordered to stay at home! blimey!

dp actually ask mr were all my friends are and why i dont see them no more, he keeps thinking that we've fallen out because of the lack of contact!!

i enjoyed having my friends there with me too. i actually had a good time during dd birth even though i was out of it with the gas and air and in pain!! my friends and dp were chatting away and i felt more at ease, with ds it was more intimate with just dp.

its not just me who has lost a lot of friends then??

i invited only 4 of my school mates to my wedding earlier this month and we only left just over a year ago, people kept asking me why i didnt invite a certain 'best' friend from the time and i had to explain many times that she hasnt contacted me since the birth of my daughter (nearly 2 years ago) and i dont have the energy (being 6/7month pg) to chase after someone who isnt bothered about me. they all still turned around and said it was a 'shame' as we were so close. amazing how naive some people are, and how much they think i should run after someone who really isnt bothered!!

stacey, same with me.... my best friends except for one dropped of the face of the earth the minute dd was born. i got a congratulations text message and never heard form them again... didn't even reply to my messages wanting to meet up

being a young mum makes it tough to meet other moms too, they're all much older than me and don't really have any interest in talking... and don't have much in common, besides kids, with me.

very frustrating

i do have friends that are older with kids the same age but its not really the same is it? soemtimes you wanna whinge about the granny on the bus tutting at you having a 2yr old and bump at 19 but older people dont really understand.

not that i care about people tutting, me and dh got married a month ago (after falling pg with dd just 2 days after getting together) and we now own our own flat, he works full time to support us and i dotn have to claim any benefits, why do they have a problem????

Hey im 18 and 6 months pregnant would really like to chat to other pregnant mums or neone round my age with young babies to give me advice

hi all,

I'm 18 2 and i'm 14 weeks preg with my first.. I have the same problem none of my friends have kids and i cant seem to find anyone around me who is pregnant!!! x

Hi, im 20 my ds is 13months old. Glad you started this thread. I always wonder how old the people im talking to on here are.
Buktus, I saw your thread about your tummy tuck. Didnt realise you were this younge. Im jelous I want one . Can't wait to hear about the outcome.

I'm 22 & my DD is 8. None of my friends of my age have children - my friends with children are mainly parents of DDs school friends. I found it got easier to make mummy friends when she went to school.

None of the girls I work with have their own children either (well the ones in my immediate section, some of the older ones have grown up children).

Well I think a few girls from school have since had babies but they were people I wouldn't really consider friends .... not because they are mums, but because they weren't very nice at school!

hi all
been reading your messages on here. I was ninetten when i hadd my baby. He will be a year old on november 25th. Some days i feel so depressed at being stuck in the house with no one to talk to. Its very true that all your friends quickly abandon you when you cant go out. Have found the first year of motherhood quite hard mentally at times, Does that sound horrible???

Michaela x x

Hey

I'm currently 17 weeks pregnant with my first baby and am 20 years old. would be good to keep in contact with other mums to be/mums of the same age group to share this experience with! Keep in touch guys and hope all's well with every1!

Hugs to all

charlii n bump ! xxx

so where is every one from? x

Nateyo - In response to your previous post i'm from North devon, you? Anyone else local-ish to me?

charlii x x x

Im from south east london in bromley anyone heard or from there?

hey sweetlove, im from camberwell

I'm in derby east midlands.. all alone! x

hey nateyo, hows your pregnancy coming along? are you going to find out the sex?

im in Berkshire

im in Berkshire

Evening ladies!
Me 23
Dh 25
Ds1 16m
Ds2 2m
plus 2 dogs.
Can I join?

There are lots of names on here i have never seen before. didnt realise there were so many lovely, young, lively and gorgeous mummies on here!

lol quootie!

soooo good I had to say it twice

lady(sorry too lazy to write whole name!!) how are you coping with two little ones? i have 21 month gap between dd and ds, ds is now nearly 4 months!

the name is long as i was suspected of being a hoaxer earlier! lol i usually get called Lof or LotF!
anyhoo...
its ok. i can handle it as long as they dont both cry at the same time, that is really hard.
luckily ds2 is very laid back but ds1 is very demanding and domineering. he is quite stubborn and knows what he wants.
if ds2 had had the same traits i would have keeled over ages ago. lol