I’m on a lot of parenting websites and it seems so many hate their children going to the dads house (not talking in cases of abuse that’s completely understandable) but it just seems some parents don’t like sharing their child and want to be with them 24/7. I’ve even read comments such as “why have kids if you want time to yourself” 
is this a normal way to feel? I’m a lone with mine and ex doesn’t see them, I would give anything for a regular break, I’m completely drained and exhausted, I’m like a zombie, I feel so resentful of parents who get free time to themselves, but it seems so many hate this?? Does any one enjoy the break? Can’t help but think people would feel really different if they never actually got a break.