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Plentyoffish.com....

433 replies

EscapeFrom · 26/07/2007 23:14

They're all bloody married!!

"I have no affection in my 35 year marriage - seeking keep fit fanatic aged betwen 18 and 23 - for discreet hotel fun"

Tossers.

OP posts:
charliecat · 29/07/2007 21:37

Its ok. Sigh, Lous still pondering over an X, we cant be pleased I dont think. Not even Shrek in a G-String would perk us up LOL

JoMa · 29/07/2007 21:42

thanks to you lot and this thread I registered on plentyoffish. I've had some lovely messages, no weirdos so far

and been chatting to a lovely guy whose sister is one of the managers at the nursery my boys go to, small world or what

lou33 · 29/07/2007 21:43

yeh i cant move on from my exbf, so anyone i go on a date with is doomed anyway

nutcracker · 29/07/2007 21:44

I don't think I am cut out for internet dating, just winds me up and puts me in a bad mood.

allgonebellyup · 29/07/2007 21:45

lou ,is this the boyf of 9 months who had to move /work away, was he in the army or something?

can you not have a long distance relationship or restart it somehow?
there must be some way around it, i see you talk about him and miss him a lot!?

lou33 · 29/07/2007 21:46

yes it is, he left the army and moved abroad to become a diving instructor, but he isnt coming back, so no point in having any sort of relationship

he was my one

allgonebellyup · 29/07/2007 21:48

isnt he gutted too??

cant he be a drving instructor in this country?

i know you think he is the One but maybe there isnt a One for anybody, you may meet someone just as great in time???

lou33 · 29/07/2007 21:55

diving over here or travelling round the world to places like thailand, bali etc? i know what i would choose.

i knew it when i met him, it was already in motion, the plan, so i cant moan

also he wants kids and i cant have them

yes it was v hard when we parted, for both of us, but he has to do this, i understand, he is young

he was my one though

allgonebellyup · 29/07/2007 22:01

for you.

i am still cut up about letting my ex go, now he is in the arms of another, and what's worse is my children worship her and tell me they wish she lived with us.

lou33 · 29/07/2007 22:07

oh dear

he wasnt seeing or hadnt seen anyone last time we were in touch, which was about 10 days ago

it was just the wrong time for us

allgonebellyup · 29/07/2007 22:08

so you might still work it out?

perhap youre still holding on as you know he hasnt met someone yet..you might let go if he meets someone? like i have to now..

charliecat · 29/07/2007 22:17

ok, now talking to a bloke with a very flash red car.

lou33 · 29/07/2007 22:19

no i am not holding on, he just spoiled me for anyone else i might meet

flash car eh?

allgonebellyup · 29/07/2007 22:23

i actually like the ones with the men holding up the impressive fish they have caught..whats that all about??

brandy7 · 29/07/2007 22:27

i use the site, met a bloke, got on really well, he "fell in love with me" and my two sons ages 13 and 3, after two months of stringing me along he decided that he didnt want to be involved with someone with a toddler! broke my eldests heart and mine......his loss

theres some weird bloke on there whos totally a female hater, he sent me a message, i checked his profile out and thought that he was weird but replied, his reply was "fuck off you pratt" and he blocked me so icouldnt send a hateful one back, tosser!

lou33 · 29/07/2007 22:27

hahaha i've seen those on other sites

brandy7 · 29/07/2007 22:42

such a tosser lou, i was livid, he obviously only put a profile on there to abuse everyone that replied, i only replied tongue in cheek

lou33 · 29/07/2007 22:47

oh brandy i wasnt laughing at you, i meant the fish thing

i agree you can get soem tossers, i have had a few who i have never spoken to call me a fucking tramp and a washed up old whore

not sure if my luck is in there or not?

brandy7 · 29/07/2007 22:54

oh lou, i knew you werent laughing at me

men do ballshit though, probably the woman do as well, im giving up on the dating lark till mine have left home,lol

lou33 · 29/07/2007 22:57

yes they do

amazing how many sensitive funny kind and caring single guys htere are about, who all really loev staying in watchign a dvd with a bottle of wine and the right woman, if only they could find her

brandy7 · 29/07/2007 23:00

exactly! such liars, why do they say that when really they want a childless nymphomaniac. well i could be a nympo but only when the kids are soundo

lou33 · 29/07/2007 23:02

what they should say is

i am a twat who has pissed off too many women locally and just want a quick bunk up

failing that please bring me off online, i'm not fussy

msn me at

[email protected]

brandy7 · 29/07/2007 23:03
Grin
charliecat · 29/07/2007 23:11

LOL, missed all the conversation while been chatting to [email protected]
seemed nice and lives not far away.
Rich, apparently.

charliecat · 30/07/2007 12:03

me and lou have been messaged by the same bloke