Hi,
I’m mum to three girls aged 10, 7 and 7 months, my oldest two are from my first marriage.
Baby’s dad and I live separately at present and the children and I are in a two-bed flat with no outdoor space while baby’s dad lives in a four bed house he bought a few months ago for us all to move into.
Both my oldest two have changed school twice.
Baby’s dad would like us to move in with him which would mean another school move for my daughters, although it would this time coincide with moving up to secondary and middle schools- just not with friends (again).
I’m likely to come under a lot of fire from their Dad if I move them, I feel very confused about whether I should try to get us all under one roof, their own rooms, big garden etc, or if I should struggle on in the flat o my own so they suffer less disruption short-term.
Any advice would be great- I suffer with anxiety which is leading to me being a bit frantic and woolly headed of late.