I hate him

[twinniemum]

I hate for not trying as he promised, i hate him for no longer caring, i hate him for saying he no longer knows how he feels about me, i hate him for messing me around. why didnt he just leave when he said he was leaving? why did he have to come back? (the next day) why has he messed me around for the last 6 weeks? I hate him and i will never forgive him.

now i am going to bed before i run the risk of sounding like i've completely lost it, although i suppose i have already.
i feel crap.

I know, and its hard, but it hurts more convincing yourself it will happen when it really wont..

Honestly, tell him you need to have a proper sit down, he needs to say what he wants, no more chopping and changing, it's not fair on you.. Ask him what his reasons are that he doesn't want to be with you?? If it's something workable then yes, it may work.. But don't start trying to change who you are just to try and keep him there, because this problem will only re-occur at a later point

Get some sleep twinnie, will seem better in the morning, at least you have got some things off your chest

Thanks tld, his reasons are not wanting to argue and he doesnt know how he feels about me anymore. Sunday night it was over, again. Monday morning he wasnt sure. now he is away at work until wed or thurs and away from fri until mon dont know how it can get sorted, dont know still what he wants to do.

twinnie i have read your thread and what you have said is exactly how i am feeling at the moment too. you have some good advice here which i have tried to take on too. Good luck, hope things get better for you x