Hello, i've a one month old baby and the father of the baby (who was a one night stand) is wanting contact. I've no problem with this, but i just wanted to know how often people think - once a fortnight? I'm really worried about him being with the baby without me there and I wanted contact to take place at mine - what do others think? also the father is wanting the baby to stay over with him and I've said no to this as I don't think the baby should have an overnight stay with him till much much older - i was thinking not till baby at least 2 years old - what do others think about this? and has anyone been in a similar position? any advice and comments appreciated as very very worried and upset about it all