dating and the singleton hints and tips thread

[outofmyleugue]

ok so having not dated since teens and now in late 30s ,i would love you to share your hints and tips avoid me still acting like teenager !thanks all

i have another date tomorrow night with the one i went out with, he called me this morning

wow, how exciting all these dates everyone is having!
Good luck Lou.

thanks

i am sure we will have fun

ooh panic over thought i was actually going to be happy for good then,but no 3 weeks and dumped by text two minutes ago

by text?!

by text
ive tried ringing him but he wont answer what a prick

im losing the plot here dont want to shed a tear for him but damn

what a shit

i'm sorry to hear that

did he give a reason?

i suspect it isnt him as such making you feel that bad, but the knock to your confidence, just when you were feeling good about things?

because i had an off day ,i have been everything he wanted ,to the point of not being myself ,i had an off day and he sulked off

i want to smash something ,i really dont know what to do

damn damn damn

ok i will go do housework clean the living daylights out of the house

oh and for everyone who doesnt know im Almost an angel

never never be anything than yourself sweetie

there is nothing wrong with being you, and if he cant handle it then he can kiss your arse on his way out

i left answer phone message very calmly saying i still have some of his stuff what should i do with it ,he rang i and said can he pick it up tonight i said i would leave it outside i have put in a picture my 8 year old did of him the other day ,maybe will make him feel on tenth as shit as i

do you think he maybe feels it has got too serious too quickly

the bloke i have seen on and off admitted himself he had a mad five mins, but when i told him it didnt matter if i saw him or not, he asked me out again

he did the serious bit! not me ,he brought some of his stuff round and it was all too soon but i really fell for him ,,

yeh i know that one, they get carried away with the moment then panic

final story line in this one ,,he pulled up after midnight thinking id be asleep and drove off after grabbing his bag ,pretty damn fast ,the end

really note, he doesnt sound worth the energy to me, what was it that made you think he was potentially the one?

just felt right ..cant explain it .

do you think it was more to do with you wanting a companion than him being the right one iyswim?

yes you ar right i am a pack animal and miss the pack leader so i see past any crap

there is nothing wrong with putting yourself in charge , you might like it

how long were you single before this blokey?